Let us not add elements from other situations, just focus on what happened here
Young black boys need mentors who will stress the importance of self control. If you cannot control your dikk, you cannot lead anything. If young black boys are to grow into men who will lead women and children, then they need to have the proper foundation. And that foundation is not, "do as I say, but not as I do" while producing more out of wedlock children.
Single heterosexual man.
Did not impregnate or led her to believe there is more to the relationship
She made her decision to what type of relationship it was to be in the beginning, then decided to change her mind
Young black boys do not need role models who treat women like disposable rags, even when the women behave as such. A man of character would not have used her body even though she had no problem giving it out. From the content of those texts, obviously she wanted more than that. Many women do, but it is sad that they feel they have to settle for being a cumrag with the hopes that maybe he will commit.
Again, two consenting adults made their decision to what type of relationship it was to be in the beginning
You mentioned that Dr. Johnson does not have to hold the "sex is marriage" stance, but yet you are faulting him for not holding "sex is marriage" stance because you could easily have said that she used him for dyck, a come up, or a celeb conquest. But no, you automatically made her the victim and him the perpetrator with the disposable rags description
Young black boys don't need role models who participate in such behavior. Young black girls don't either as it will encourage them to behave like a blonde wig wearing whore.
What behaviour? being honest with what you want or not lying about being in love just to lead her on to give up the poosay
How many times have Dr. Johnson spoke about being honest with what you want in a relationship? That is the core of his teachings when talking about marriage and relationships
I am not sure why people are pretending as if this whore lifestyle has not had dramatic negative effects on the black community. But you can support whatever you want.
Again, maintain perspective...
1) stripping and whoring are not the same
2) stripping and whoring is not unique to the black community
3) I don't attend strip joints and I don't believe in making it rain so to stroke my ego, but closing down all strip clubs will not make a dent into the various obstacles erected to impede the progress for the black community
This sitution is disgraceful enough. While I could pull up lectures that contradict his recent actions, I am not going to because the fire is already burning and I am not going to add flames. I don't like the witchhunt aspect of it.
But at the same time, I am not going to support foolishness while pretending that it is productive. The values that he speaks about do not fall in line with someone who bangs whores with unnatural hair textures.
Please pull these lectures that clearly mentions Dr Johnson suggesting who to and not to fawk, while not in the context of relationship and marriage
"Brothas we need stop being single and marry our sistas"
speaks in the context of finding your "quality" woman, but made it clear that woman was not of his "quality" for any relationship, other than what they had agreed to
