Comments making me proud.
this one got me cookin tho'
"My brother in Christ, you aren't the backup plan. You are the 10 years later plan. Nobody randomly thinks of some person from 10 years ago and sends them a message because their feelings changed. How could her feelings change? You haven't even kept in touch. She doesn't even know who you are anymore.
What did change is her life circumstances. You probably got your shyt together, maybe a house, good paying job. She's got two kids she may need to provide a father figure for.
Hard pass, my guy. Go find someone who thinks you're the shyt, not someone willing to consistently overlook you for a decade. "
Happens to me all the time,its called impact satisfaction or growth or all the above.
Never understood the logic of "If you didnt like me when i was uglier,broker,lamer,dumber. You cant have me when im smarter,more financially stable,more attractive and more succesful

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I guess the logic is pettiness. But maybe you didnt meet the standard and now you do. Why deny that youve grown as a man and deserve the rewards of that. Alot of yall didnt deserve the women yall got if they had sense,self esteem and self worth
