Women are hardwired for comfort, satisfaction, provision, and mushy ego shyt.
If she is getting fukked right, finances straight, and the guy ain’t an a$$hole and does romantic stuff now and again, she not gon just up and leave a dude for another nikka.
Women leave when men become so fukking irritating that love no longer exists in our hearts to block out ur aggy ass attributes. It’s usually a buildup of shyt.
When she is working full time and can’t rely on you to do ur part in household chores, so she gotta pick up ur slack b/c in the back of ur mind u internalized the idea that even tho ya’ll both contribute equally, u still supposed to have a live-in maid and personal chef.
Compounded by the fact that she not orgasming when u give her those same wack ass strokes and ur ego wont accept any communication about spicing it up.
When all of that is happening (or not happening) and u still talking like u running shyt...
AND u might be trying to finess a side chick situation or doing obviously shady shyt that u think u getting away with.
She will stay until she has the means to move on. Financially, or otherwise.
But sometimes, new dikk ain’t even in the equation. Sometimes it’s not that they met somebody new. Sometimes they just don’t wanna deal with u no more and they planning an exit b4 they have to say or do some shyt that will land them in jail or make u mad enough to hurt them.
Some dudes are so insufferable that chicks literally be willing to get a roommate, raise a child alone, or divorce when they damn near 80...just to get some peace b/c they were saddled to a big ass entitled child in a grown man’s body.
One chick who is married and about to divorce told me, she handed the baby to her husband and asked him to bath her while she cooked dinner after they both got home from work. He works at Wells Fargo and she is an elementary school teacher. Dude bathed the baby and came back trying to give a wet ass baby back to her AS she was trying to put the chicken in the oven so he could get back on the sticks.
That’s the type of shyt that would make me wanna go to the store for a pack of cigarettes and never come back.
Please miss me with any hurt, in your feelings comments. Unless u date or fukk men
u don’t know shyt about the way SOME of ya’ll are in relationships. And ya’ll talk shyt about women all day long, so a bit o criticism shouldn’t get u that incensed, especially since ya’ll are allegedly sooooooo much better at accountability than women are.
If u wanna know why women get happy as fukk when they divorce or get single, that dual burden of work and still having to raise and take care of a grown ass man is the primary problem. Also men are more likely to remarry than women are...sooooooooo even tho women are seemingly soooooo much more toxic to men than the reverse, a man is more likely to want to remarry than a woman is. And divorce is female oriented most of the time. Trust me, another dikk does NOT have to be in the equation for a chick to say “I can’t take this shyt no more” and start getting ready to draft that long ass breakup text that u not tryin to read.
Yoda gettin down.
