A Woman’s True Character Is When She’s In Her Prime

[MMA]

That's because of old hoes. Seen it myself. There's an active culture of 'what he don't like, another will'. Young women repeat the shyt not knowing, No, another won't. Men don't want your unique form of neuroses, the baggage you accumulate getting hurt over and over, the kids. They want you to have a relatively clean reputation and play your position, whatever that entails for your relationship.

But old hoes don't know no better (that's why they old hoes). This is the result of no fathers in the home, btw.

You always see that shift with them too They go from happy enjoying life women to talking about needing god, about how they want x y and z but don't clearly see the baggage they are walking with; shyt will turn off most man from creating something with you.

I had to hit one chick up that I know to let her know, she was doing herself a disservice by acting that way. You are going to push away future pursuers with that attitude.

 

[Henri Christophe]

They really don't

you can straight up tell a woman you don't want shyt but some head and a sandwich to be happy and I promise her response will be

why you need head everyday? And what if I wanted to make something besides a sandwich?

I swear bro...... Men out here waking up every day to fulfill women's standards.

We gettin money... We gettin fly.... We stayin fresh and clean... We tryna build ourselves up

Women aint even worrying bout what we want..... They think we should be happy just to get their time..... You gotta literally break these women down and build them back up in order to get rid of old habits.

Men accept anything..... And it fukks it up for the nikkas searching for some quality.

Alot of women coulda been quality if they didnt spend so much time dealing with weirdo simp nikkas.....

If men simply raised the collective standard.... I swear things would change.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Exactly. They are built up on lies. They are lied to that those actions will not matter in the future and marriage is still something they will be given. Instead of planning and executing. I honestly blame the foolish parents. Women who possessive the desire to be married, actions show it immediately - they were raised with those expectations. The way they date etc shows it.

There no respect for hoes, men have always made it clear. They are to be used and left. Man don't wife up IG hoes, most of them are considered the top quality of woman by society standards but they are mostly not married, go to any of those fashion nova pages all unmarried.

Agree.

But understand, the internet done fukked up the game. No, men might not be wifing up IG thots, but if you a young girl on social media and all you see is, 'I would wife/ drink her bath water/ raise her b*stard kids', shyt gets confusing. Cuz it legit do look like yall want hoes. That's like a nikka that talk about McDonald's all day, 'Oh, them fries delicious, the way they sprinkle the salt ', and then want a home cooked meal. Wtf.

 

[MMA]

I swear bro...... Men out here waking up every day to fulfill women's standards.

We gettin money... We gettin fly.... We stayin fresh and clean... We tryna build ourselves up

Women aint even worrying bout what we want..... They think we should be happy just to get their time..... You gotta literally break these women down and build them back up in order to get rid of old habits.

Men accept anything..... And it fukks it up for the nikkas searching for some quality.

Alot of women coulda been quality if they didnt spend so much time dealing with weirdo simp nikkas.....

If men simply raised the collective standard.... I swear things would change.

All goes back to fatherhood. I'm watching the difference between my 2 younger cousins. One is raised to see value in herself and to choose wisely, the other sees value in being liked by multiple man. I have to talk to the last one constantly about how she needs to move, there are simple 2 kind of boys/man in this world. Learn that early, ease dating for her.

Agree.

But understand, the internet done fukked up the game. No, men might not be wifing up IG thots, but if you a young girl on social media and all you see is, 'I would wife/ drink her bath water/ raise her b*stard kids', shyt gets confusing. Cuz it legit do look like yall want hoes. That's like a nikka that talk about McDonald's all day, 'Oh, them fries delicious, the way they sprinkle the salt ', and then want a home cooked meal. Wtf.

True but it's easy to show them, none of those girls are married, or in long term relationships that will lead to a family unit.

 

[T'krm]

It truly does just feel like the opposite side of the coin, sometimes: both sides equally spiteful, degenerate, and toxic, yet both sides trying to justify shytty behavior while pretending to take high road..me looking at both fighting in same cespool

"Lame Larry"


Dont worry.... Lame Larry gets to have his shot after the real nikkas get done with em..... Tell Lame Larry to wait one second lol

Just like some men wanna fukk a certain type of chick while Nerdy Neisha sitting right there ready to give it up. Everybody tries to punch above their weight.

Point is, just like I tell women, if you want to encourage certain behavior, reward the ones doing right with some ass. For men, if yall want to wife certain types of women, wife them so the rest of the women know. Men lead, right? Well lead by example.

 

[Krazy K]

Agree.

But understand, the internet done fukked up the game. No, men might not be wifing up IG thots, but if you a young girl on social media and all you see is, 'I would wife/ drink her bath water/ raise her b*stard kids', shyt gets confusing. Cuz it legit do look like yall want hoes. That's like a nikka that talk about McDonald's all day, 'Oh, them fries delicious, the way they sprinkle the salt ', and then want a home cooked meal. Wtf.

 

[HarlemHottie]

True but it's easy to show them, none of those girls are married, or in long term relationships that will lead to a family unit.

Who gon show them? The old hoes they already getting bad advice from? Most of these girls never even seen a functional familial unit in real life.

Girls need their fathers. Young ones out here lawst.

 

[Henri Christophe]

men might not be wifing up IG thots, but if you a young girl on social media and all you see is, 'I would wife/ drink her bath water/ raise her b*stard kids', shyt gets confusing. Cuz it legit do look like yall want hoes. That's like a nikka that talk about McDonald's all day, 'Oh, them fries delicious, the way they sprinkle the salt ', and then want a home cooked meal. Wtf.

Hoes serve their purpose... Thats where simps get it fukked up.

Hoes were put here for sexual release.

Hoes been around since ancient times.

Men were never supposed to be cuffin.. Or marrying... Or validating hoes.

Men were never supposed to be in public comments talkin about "omg you so beautiful" to a damn hoe.

The most high probably looking down in disgust right now.

I swear

 

[you're NOT "n!ggas"]

I'm not MAD at the OP but at the same time... This is the shyt that worries me about our community

Our relationships with one another are so fukked up it's hard to imagine how things will ever change. Like somebody else said, a bunch of hurt people trying not to get hurt, while they hurt other people. We all need a sex life but if that life is built (solely) on lies and deceit and sifting for cues that she's damaged goods then something's wrong. Idk how we rebuild the black family if we're treating each other like this. Idk how we can stop white supremacy from destroying us if we're destroying ourselves emotionally. On what foundation can we build anything of worth??? Honest question.

My bad though, I'm not trying to knock the thread, I get it but at the same time


Also, there's like 30 million men in China who CAN'T get married if they wanted cuz their literally aren't enough women. The One Child policy destroyed their men to women ratio. That "Shaq Fu" or whatever might've been the wave before but these days it's resting on a pile of bullshyt

 

[MMA]

Who gon show them? The old hoes they already getting bad advice from? Most of these girls never even seen a functional familial unit in real life.

Girls need their fathers. Young ones out here lawst.

Yup, those old hoes want them to suffer like them smh.
Even some that do have their father but his guidance isn't there. shyt is heartbreaking.

Often it'll be previous boyfriends or guy friends who want the best for them, providing that advice.
Some change but very often don't. They continue the cycle to want acceptances,
from man who will never give it to them and then the cycle continues.
With social media you are right, it's only going to get worse.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Hoes serve their purpose... Thats where simps get it fukked up.

Hoes were put here for sexual release.

Hoes been around since ancient times.

Men were never supposed to be cuffin.. Or marrying... Or validating hoes.

Men were never supposed to be in public comments talkin about "omg you so beautiful" to a damn hoe.

The most high probably looking down in disgust right now.

I swear

Big facts.

 

[BlaqkSpliffin]

I'm not MAD at the OP but at the same time... This is the shyt that worries me about our community

Our relationships with one another are so fukked up it's hard to imagine how things will ever change. Like somebody else said, a bunch of hurt people trying not to get hurt, while they hurt other people. We all need a sex life but if that life is built (solely) on lies and deceit and sifting for cues that she's damaged goods then something's wrong. Idk how we rebuild the black family if we're treating each other like this. Idk how we can stop white supremacy from destroying us if we're destroying ourselves emotionally. On what foundation can we build anything of worth??? Honest question.

My bad though, I'm not trying to knock the thread, I get it but at the same time


Also, there's like 30 million men in China who CAN'T get married if they wanted cuz their literally aren't enough women. The One Child policy destroyed their men to women ratio. Then "Shaq Fu" or whatever might've been the wave before but these days it's resting on a pile of bullshyt

Damn China going out like that

And the Japanese nikkas ain't fukkin either

And White people are dying off


This sounds like Black people could make some moves if we weren't on our bullshyt

 

[UWasntThere]

The classic "good girl" role......

I dont even mind it

If she wants to play a role for me.... Cool.... shyt I'll play right along.... She can be my fake lil good girl


Eventually they get tired of playing the role and slip up and say/do something outta character.... IT ALWAYS HAPPENS

Lol

Because even when a woman is being a "good girl" for you... Its never genuinely for YOU..... its always to benefit her in some way.

Once they cant finesse you out some benefits.... They say "fukk this shyt" and expose themselves.

All you can do is shake your head and laugh.

Yeah, but they don't expose themselves until they feel comfortable and catch feelings. Then you can turn cold on them and I guarantee they'll be doing the most to keep you around.

Otherwise it's to the bushes.

 

[T'krm]

I swear bro...... Men out here waking up every day to fulfill women's standards.

We gettin money... We gettin fly.... We stayin fresh and clean... We tryna build ourselves up

Women aint even worrying bout what we want..... They think we should be happy just to get their time..... You gotta literally break these women down and build them back up in order to get rid of old habits.

Men accept anything..... And it fukks it up for the nikkas searching for some quality.

Alot of women coulda been quality if they didnt spend so much time dealing with weirdo simp nikkas.....

If men simply raised the collective standard.... I swear things would change.

Breh. Meaning to say for awhile, but you cant say with a straight face this is the overriding dynamic w/ the Black community. Actually the opposite!!

Let's get on some myth busting shyt, and break this fake narrative here. Fact, in a way, bw are 'least desired'.Statistically, are: most likely to get married later(if at all) most likely to be perenially single ie: suffer long bouts of perpetually singlehood. Add to that theyre least like to date out(less options), and least likely to settle for a 'simp', even if that extends perpetually singlehood...oh yeah, and Bm are least likely of any to be the slaving, neutered simp. Tf?!
All these Owl babies, single bm, and single baby mamas out here..surely youre not describing our situation

 

[HarlemHottie]

All these Owl babies, single bm, and single baby mamas out here..surely youre not describing our situation

What's an owl baby?