good point and thats why this is a good thread because its complicated....im not advocating abortions under all circumstances just because you cant afford em....but if the reality is yall dont care about each other and you know the dude aint gon stick around to have a family with you maybe you should consider it

...if you have a bright future in terms of education and a baby may make that difficult for you maybe you should consider

...people with higher educations are more likely to get married,and not have kids out of wedlock and live in poverty.....being that poverty creates a cycle of poverty i dont see how having more babies that can lead to more poverty is exactly helpful either.
ironically alot of the people who are one of the many causes of gentrification are white couples/married couples WITHOUT kids who got that PURCHASING power.
this shyt is complicated i just think pushing the "we need more people" motto is very irresponsible without clarification....i think me saying people who dont want kids and cant afford em shouldnt have them is pretty safe....it probaly needs more clarification too but statistically i think we all know the poverty numbers for out of wed lock babies....and simply telling people to "be a man and raise your kids" doesnt exactly work in REALITY on most people when you not having babies out of love...or when you are not educated and able to logically think about the ramifications of having babies with the wrong person too soon.
god knows how thecoli feels about marriage though until its convienient