How many women do you know that don’t want their kids?
When you want a child, you plan for it. Your life is together to the point where you are ready for a child. That's a lot of factors, safe sex, choosing the right person to have sex with, having a good job, having finished college, having a stable house or apartment, car, savings.
Mfs really be getting pregnant like "oh! I gotta get my shyt together!"
Sad part is a lot of people aren't ready. Mentally, emotionally, physically, financially, etc. And when the kid comes they "just deal with it" they don't parent very well and they negatively affect their children. They are unskilled and lack maturity so they just fall back on what they've seen or heard, what happened to them. They'll yell at their kids, hit their kids. Child abuse and neglect is rampant in America, and that's what's seen. What's not seen and not reported is sickening. And I unfortunately a lot of those kids will grow up and do the same.