I believe this is it. People trying to say it's "oh it's cuz of mah big black dyck" are just trying to nurse their ego, Black women are built for Black men so big dycks aren't a problem considering most Black men got average size dycks anyway.
It's the way Black men behave and try to be cheap that turns the women off. I worked in restaurants during college and noticed this same behavior from Black men trying to be cheap, trying to get every bit of it, and just an all around pain in the azz.
Since Black Men are so terrible, why the fukk are you on a predominately black male forum?
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low self esteem is a bytch

