Active Coli members that suddenly stopped posting...

L

lib123

Superstar
Joined
Jun 16, 2015
Messages
10,400
Reputation
1,030
Daps
22,036
@Malik and @mamba used to be dissecting modern dating realities.


Malik said:
@Reality hit it on the head

A lot of young black women....at least majority of the attractive ones have a type....the same way men like pretty girls with curves, breasts and booty....they like bad boys/swagged up dudes. I have a theory that BW don't care for the middle guys. They want one end or the other end. Extreme polarity. On one end is the rich ballers. They can be rappers, athletes, actors, doctors, lawyers, the lames they dissed before who are now successful. Any black dude with money. On the other end are the broke dudes. They broke as fukk but, they fulfill a physical requirement they crave. They have a big dikk. They're a bad boy. They have the arrogant swag they love. They're handsome. These dudes are broke but, fulfill one of those requirements. BW deal in polarity....rich nikka or poor bad boy. Now........the middle guys. The average guys. The nikkas who don't fit the status quo for what a black man is supposed to be is shyt out of luck. He's a lame. He doesn't have the natural physical qualities black women crave (thugs, bad boys, pretty boys, swag boys). The only chance he has is to come up financially but, that's years away. My theory is ALOT of black men fall into "the middle guy" zone which is why you hear so many successful black guys say the same story.

As others have said, it's much much easier for that average middle guy to get a woman of another race. She sees your potential. She's not tryna to date the next Wiz Khalifa. A lot of things that's lame to our women is normal to them. I'm rambling now but, I want to add this, I remember one of my roommates had a girl. Let's call him Lamont. The girl he was seeing looked like Victoria Allure (porn broad). My roommate was the kinda cat a lot chicks would love. Player. Arrogant. Swag. Anyway, girl was head over heels for him. She'd come over and cook all us (4 suite mates) dinner. She'd vacuum clean the spot. She'd buy that nikka shiit all the time. I remember asking him where his girl was at once and he was like "don't call that bytch my girl nikka :dahell: We just cool". This broad would bend over backward for duke and obviously thought they were in a relationship while this nikka could care less. I looked at her with disgust eventually cuz I know she gonna be that chick that says nikkas ain't shyt or there's no good men 10 years from now when she spent her prime chasing dudes like him. No shade being thrown at my roommate. I ain't want her. I forgot her name already. It just made me disgusted nonetheless. And I hate when chicks lie online like we don't be around y'all everyday and see how y'all move.
Click to expand...


mamba said:
Breh, it's the truth. It's harsh, but it's reality outchea. These 30+ women usually make it to 30 without being wifed up for a reason.

Put it this way: one of the reasons a car's value drops the minute you take that bytch out the lot is because you'll never be able to convince someone to buy it back from you at the same price. Even if you bought it and tried to sell it within 30 minutes, you'd still suffer a loss.

nikkas would be skeptical. Why is he selling a perfectly good car that he just bought? There must be something wrong. It has to be a lemon. :patrice:

It's the same way with these 30+ women. They want nikkas to pay full price for used and/or potentially damaged goods. Wise nikkas are sitting there thinking, "You're fine. You look good on paper, but why hasn't a nikka wifed you up yet? You're 35. Something's gotta be wrong." :patrice:

That's the reality 30+ women have working against them. Just as women depend on other women to screen men, men depend on other men to screen women. If a nikka never gets p*ssy and play from women, other women will think that nikka is a lame and not fukk with him. It's the same way with men. If we see that no nikka has wifed a chick up past a certain age, we start doing the mental calculations.

tumblr_m7cip7oZWe1rr6cyuo1_500.gif


That's why, as @Emperor_ReinScarf mentioned, there's a shytload of 30+ women on POF, Match, and any other dating site looking for long-term mates. nikkas aren't marrying 30+ women like that.

Once a woman is over 30, she pretty much has until 32 to convince a man that she's worth marrying. If not, the probability of her marrying drops substantially each year afterward.
Click to expand...
 
L

levitate

I love you, you know.
Joined
Sep 3, 2015
Messages
41,216
Reputation
6,843
Daps
157,539
Reppin
The Multiverse
dora_da_destroyer said:
someone upped a thread that had a reply from @levitate where you at man!? :sadcam: hopefully just locked out. did he show up on dapcity? just hope he's good

edit: same for the niner breh @JLova
Click to expand...
Raw.
Retired from posting…now lurking. :old:

Love you, bae. 🥰
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Top