90k+ in Houston? She needs to get off that DMV time. People purposely move to Houston, even from the southeast, because the COL is one of the lowest among major cities.
Derrick Jaxns been telling older women they're the prize, but catch him posted up with a 20-something bird on IG. The average suitor with minimal baggage is not trying to make a woman 35+ a mother for the first time. Like someone else said she need to go older. But the same women look at most men 45+ as flabby and sick, which is somewhat true, but gotta pick your poison.
EDIT: She lived in Charlotte before moving to Houston? Probably one of the many women who rented a 1 Bedroom in Uptown/Southend for 2 years, Worked From Home, didn't make any connections, thought the city was whack, now lives in spread out Houston. It may be over for her