Advice For The Brehs/Brehettes: Truth Be Told

[onelastdeath]

I'd rather date any other kind of woman than date a woman who's last boyfriend ripped her heart out of her chest. Brehettes follow suit as well.

Dating a girl fresh off of getting hurt by another man is a mission that most nikkas should avoid. I'm all for helping someone back on their feet AS A FRIEND, but man, a woman who had her heart broken for the first time will make you pay for that nikkas mistakes something serious. Bitter. Trust Issues. And feels like she's not enough because that man didn't make her feel important enough. And deep down she'll always want him. Save yourselves the headaches breh.

I'm talking to this girl right now and she just told me she got out of a really bad relationship, she said it's hard for her to trust and she doesn't know what she did, but she's "ready to move on now"

I'm not up for that. I mean I'm not looking rn anyway, but I know from being on both sides of that fence, that as mean as it may seem, you gotta let them go through that on their own

No matter how beautiful she is, gotta leave that alone.

Same for the brehettes. If that nikka just got hurt. Let me alone

 

[Bless't]

Completely agree breh. Huge, blowing in the wind-ass-red flag.

You recognized that and moved on.

Strength.

 

[KidJSoul]

That makes some reasonable sense

 

[Strapped]

Then don't date

 

[onelastdeath]

Completely agree breh. Huge, blowing in the wind-ass-red flag.

You recognized that and moved on.

Strength.

Yeah I've been like that for a couple of years. This was just the latest case. It sounds mean as hell, but it's something I would suggest to most people, regardless of gender. You can support them, but getting into a relationship with that is trouble.

 

[onelastdeath]

Then don't date

There's a difference between a bad breakup and getting your heart broken by "the one". Bad breakups happen, but I'm talking about being the next nikka after Dominic who fukked her bestfriend while he said he was at Church

 

[Bless't]

Yeah I've been like that for a couple of years. This was just the latest case. It sounds mean as hell, but it's something I would suggest to most people, regardless of gender. You can support them, but getting into a relationship with that is trouble.

Truth is truth is truth.

No matter how you cut it... It's still pure.

Some don't have the will power to turn down the opportunity at "pretty p*ssy". No matter how many warning signs are displayed.

 

[Arithmetic]

After wife #2, the thought of dating makes me want to

 

[onelastdeath]

Truth is truth is truth.

No matter how you cut it... It's still pure.

Some don't have the will power to turn down the opportunity at "pretty p*ssy". No matter how many warning signs are displayed.

I know

And this girl is beautiful too, so I know with how she looks this is probably the first time she ever had someone do her dirty. Her ego gotta be crushed rn. It makes me feel bad, but Ima see her through it as a friend. Which is always good to have around. She asked to come to my crib tonight and I lied and told her I wasn't feeling well. Because I knew I would have hit .

This just happened about 2 months ago according to her so I know she's vulnerable af right now and I don't wanna take advantage of that either.

 

[VegasCAC]

Rebound relationships never work out in the long run.

But if you just wanna smash

 

[KravenMorehead™]

 

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[Elle Driver]

Agreed.

 

[wickedsm]

Sound advice op

 

[Trajan]

And deep down she'll always want him

This is the key. People hate rejection and she will feel some type of way about the dude that dropped her.

Not saying she will be bitter about all men, just that THAT guy is rated higher than you because he was unattainable.