After 18yrs would you want to find out the kid aint yours?

[Metta World Movement]

i have no idea why nikkas dont get a paternity test all the time. just babysit the kid and go get it done on the sly. if its yours, then don't say anything. if its not, well... you know what to do...​

I think it has to do with ego and ignorance

A lot of nikkas flat-out REFUSE to even entertain the notion that their chick could cheat on them, let alone get preggo by someone else. Especially when they have feelings for the chick.

Dudes need to be smarter than that. It's one thing not to believe your girl is cheating without definite proof; it's another thing to take any lil runt she pops out and believe it's your without question.....when you can easily confirm it beyond any doubt with a DNA test

I don't care how much you think the kid might look like you; all that means is she might have fukked someone who looks similar to you. You even got dumbass white dudes claiming dark babies on some Dale from King of the Hill shyt; that's how much these dudes are in denial. Some chick shows them a pregnant belly and they get like "Damn.....I did that shyt.....I bigged that hoe right up.....I'm a real man now"

All you gotta do is ask yourself one question: "If....IF....this kid was someone else's, would I still want to raise it? Would I still want the kid to see me as daddy?".....and if your answer to that hypothetical is no, then there's NO excuse for not getting a DNA test done

Too much trust in a woman is exactly how nikkas get fukked over. They marry these women trusting that she'll never cheat or leave.....then she cheats, leaves, and commences the rape for alimony and child support. And if you can't afford to pay, then you end up like





They trust that she's telling the truth when she says "you da pappy"....then 8 years the 'pappy' realizes the kid bears a striking resemblance to Tyrone from next door. Pappy finally gets the DNA test done; he's not da pappy. He confronts the mother and she's like "Oops, sorry .....well I fukked both of y'all at the time and I was betting you were the father....guess I lost that bet. So we still goin out tonight?" Pappy breaks up with her and she's like " Oh well; bye.....just make sure get that child support money together. Hmm....I wonder if Tyrone's busy tonight?"

Smarten up, brehs

 

[BossIAm]

Its a weird situation...a old friend found me on LinkedIn and we started emailing each other. This friend is also a friend of a girl I used to talk to back in HS...when I graduated HS I moved to Jacksonville. FL from Orlando..then on to college in Tallahassee, Fl and never looked back. Come to find out old girl was pregnant. I knew about this, but always assumed it was a dude she talked to.

Anyway, girl on LinkedIn said they had a convo and she thought I was the real father. When I heard this I said it does not hurt to at least speak on it....so she told moms that she was emailing me and we re-connected. Basically we met for lunch bout 2 years back and she said she was not 100% sure......but here is the thing, she been married for 8 years and dude she married to claims the kid. Him and I even talked and its no hard feelings...he knows the circumstances.....Honestly its no real pressure....we talk usually once a month just on what she does in school. DNA test has been in my mind.

I really dont talk about this so..it is what it is

Funny thing...back in college my homeboy used to always say I had a kid back in Orlando and thats why I always was going down there...he was wrong for my reason, but its spooky how he was saying all this back in the early 2000's

That's different though, you found out you are the father. This is a scenario where you find out you are not the father.

 

[YBE]

Well what if I told you that I had a confession
What if I said 4 years ago when we were arguing
he came to comfort me and I wound up pregnant
And I just can't say for sure
if the baby's yours
What if I confessed it and it turns out not to be your baby after you get tested
And it destroys what we've been blessed with
What if I suppress it 'cause technically you're the baby's daddy anyway
Is it wrong for me to want you to stay
Would you rather have me tear you away
From the only family you know
Or is this just too big a secret to keep it on the low

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aLs9p9vLDKo"]Lyfe Jennings - Hypothetically - YouTube[/ame]

Hypothetically of Course

 

[aqualung]

That's different though, you found out you are be the father. This is a scenario where you find out you are not the father.

Doc Holiday never conducted paternity testing. He's calling once a month about the academic performance of a daughter who may or may not be his. It is ridiculous to live in such uncertainty. X_x

 

[Silver Surfer]

Doc Holiday never conducted paternity testing. He's calling once a month about the academic performance of a daughter who may or may not be his. It is ridiculous to live in such uncertainty. X_x

Its easy to say that...truth is...if she is mine...I keep doing the same?...If she is not...stop all together?

I will eventually get a DNA, but its no rush seeing as they have a happy family, and I don't lose any sleep over it.

if the kid was say a toddler, then I would have done it immediately

 

[concise]

This was recorded shortly before he died.