After a 10 year relationship, is this break-up text too harsh?

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I am breaking up with you. Please pick up your clothes and personal items from my home within 7 days or I will be sending the items to the thrift store. We had some good times, but I have to move forward without you. I hope we remain friends as long as we vehemently support each others goals and ambitions. Best of luck.

actually what could be added to it, or how would you change it? fwb? or just a break? would you add more reasons as to the breakup?

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Mr Uncle Leroy said:
I am breaking up with you. Please pick up your clothes and personal items from my home within 7 days or I will be sending the items to the thrift store. We had some good times, but I have to move forward without you. I hope we remain friends as long as we vehemently support each others goals and ambitions. Best of luck.

actually what could be added to it, or how would you change it? fwb? or just a break? would you add more reasons as to the breakup?

thoughts.
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you dated someone for 10 years... :snoop:
 
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After being in a relationship with someone for 10 years....you send a text?!:what:
 
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how you gone be friends but they gotta come get they clothes within 7 days or they going to the thrift store? thats fukkery and a friendship will not survive that.
 
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Dear whatever her name is.

over the years i've takin shyt and let
you get away with things out of lust for
your skills and goddess frame...
you let yourself go and the playground that was
once your body is now but a condemned detroit 2 family
flat.
please pick up your belongings seeing as how
my new boo thang will be 2 sizes smaller and more
fashion conscience.

yours truly....'add your name'
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after 10 yrs do you think she really gonna be ok with a breakup via text, she gone act like she never got that text , hell u mean.
 
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BlvdBrawler said:
You should drop off her stuff. That way she won't have a chance to get inside your house, break down, start crying, begging, etc.... and not leave for another 9 hours.

Drop her stuff off and bounce.
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this.

i'm fine with a text breakup, its actually the most time effective and well generally effective. people are just not successful at breaking up in person (i always end up just fukking and getting back together when i know i shouldnt for the first 2 times).


but in anyway, if you are gonna do it by text, just say that you need to go your separate ways and you need not meet up. be decent enough to at least offer to mail her stuff or drop it off when she is not around and tell her if she wants to friends at a later time you should leave that up to her option. then make sure you don't respond to her texts and delete her contact info and cut off communication after materials are returned. move on and make some money/be the best at your job/go be a good fukking human being or someshyt. i feel like thats the only way i could justify not doing it face to face
 
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