You sound simpish as shyt so of a female let the last 10 dudes hit and all they brought was a blunt and some cheap liquor why would you spend your money and time taking her on a date
Women like sex just as much if not more than we do and most females have multiple dudes their juggling at one time for various different purposes, she got the dudes she call when she want to get smutted out and she got the simps that she call when she wants a free meal and to be treated like a lady.
If your looking for a wife type your best bet is to get with someone from a strict traditional culture.