ogc163
Superstar
Right but get this, what does a 20 or 30 something know about what they want out of life.
Commitment can seem like prison, but losing on out asset has long term consequences.
Especially since, those of us who are more affluent, are not doing it collectively in large enough numbers to support a strong middle class community.
Many Working-class white millennials have quickly changed their internal and cultural narratives in regards to obtaining the markers of the upper-middle class, and so it's possible. I want to be clear that I'm not making a value judgment on whether that shift is good or bad because there is a thin line between "realism" and "nihilism" among those who have changed their narrative.
There are other options instead of buying a house, and the returns on investments in homes are generally not great for Black people. That has to do with when and where Black people buy homes, differences in interest rates charged, and proximity to great schools among other things.
But understand their bread is longer, their networks are more dynamic, and they are hell bent on maintaining their position within the hierarchy. Competing with the upper-middle class in regards to housing and education can quickly become a zero-sum game, I try my best to avoid zero-sum games.