1.) Men don’t know who women are. They only who who they want women to be.
2.) Their expectations are clashing in a world where individuals are increasingly gaining more and more freedom to be themselves as ole school shaming tactics lose a lot of their power.
3.) As women start feeling more comfortable to be their true selves and not the construct men desire of them, many are struggling to adjust.
4.) In dating this means a lot of women just aren’t going to be willing to give up her 20s, 30s, 40s…or in some cases any part of her life to do what traditional society wants women to do: get married early, pop out babies, defer to a husband, cook/clean/take care of kids, forgo hanging out with the girls, having fun…and in some cases even forgo sexual satisfaction. And many expect women to bypass genuine physical attraction to their mates and focus on just getting a man. Women are saying no because why wouldn’t they? They can get their needs met in arrangements that don’t require the shyt they saw many of their grandmother’s go through.
5.) Men for the most part aren’t going to change their expectations. Even if he’s not the primary breadwinner, many will still be completely insufferable, demanding, yet somehow still clueless about where the clit is, and talking shyt about female inferiority and women being children while simultaneously also wanting the very tainted creatures they blame everything on to SUBMIT! Well gee, why would anybody wanna be saddled with somebody who thought so lowly of them?
Dudes be outchea talm bout, “why won’t these worthless ass c*nts worship me, wait on me hand and foot, let me cheat in peace, and just stfu? Who wouldn’t want that?! That’s a prize, a catch!”
6.) So they look for any indicator of female unhappiness as evidence of women needing male guidance—-even as they experience failure as well.
7.) When all else fails, they look for silly reasons to explain current issues away. But it’s not simping or social media. It’s women are finally getting more and more honest about what they want b/c they are being allowed to without silly ass social shaming tactics.
What do they want: They wanna cum. A lot. They want good freak sex like that shyt they read about in them books they reading. They want a partnership. Some don’t mind letting the man lead but not when men are disrespectful a$$holes who take them for granted. They want romance, equal help around the house and with the kids b/c they breadwinners too. They want ya‘ll to STFU sometimes instead of always bytching about stuff. They want love from who they desire. And if they can’t get who they want, they want enough money to live well and to be left the hell alone. They may or may not want kids, but not if they are gonna have to do EVERYTHING for them alone even if they in a relationship. They want go out, have fun with their girls and not be punished or castigated for it. And if any of this is hoe babble or irritating, they don’t mind dying alone. Because what women are saying is that dying alone with a dildo is better than putting up with the nonsense of modern man most of the time. And this is being said by women WORLDWIDE. It’s not just the West.
All of this has always been obvious to me…but dudes just now catching on. Some will continue to argue with me, but the writing been on the wall for a minute.
Women just not willing to put up with the less healthier aspects of marriage now that they make more money for themselves.
