Shamefully, I used to indulge in debauchery like that. It’s addictive once you devilishly separate spirit and flesh. Ironically, most folks involved in stuff like this are very safe sexually. You run the risk of catching something with a loose girlfriend that doesn’t like condoms versus something like that where safe sex is preferred and advocated.
However, I denounce it in its entirety because it is not God’s way. We’re meant to find a queen and life partner. Be faithful to one another.
In closing, I strongly believe it’s fake.