All I ended up getting for Christmas was my heart broken

[Smokin Rider]

women follow the same script

" i need space" - as i try and wrap up this new nikka

" its me not you" - i no longer love you, attracted to you your just a friend

"i still care about and love you" i dont want you to hate me so i lie so i dont have to live with this guilt

"who knows maybe we will get back together one day" - yeah right nygga if you were the last person on earth, but let me give you this false hope incase it doesnt work out with one jervavian, tavaris, malik, keyshawn, q'travis, Etwan your teh safe nugga i can come to

and sadly men keep slurping up the lies

I had nobody to tell me not to trust a girl like that. I went through the same grief OP is doing for about 1 year too, and believed she would be back. Now, I don't give a fukk . She used to ignore my texts and respond hours later when I was missin her, but now I'm busy and don't ever talk to her and she had the nerve to ask "how come we don't talk anymore" on FB.

I read that with the face and proceeded to throw her message in the trash w/o a response, and we haven't talked since and I feel great + learned a valuable life lesson.

You can't do that in your situation, so just be the great father you are capable of and hold ya head up. There are some good women out there.

 

[MMS]

http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/50440-having-small-meat-appreciation.html#.UNpyp47FVGE

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[kermit da hustla]

The girl I spent 7 years of my life with, the girl I almost married, the girl I had a child and started a family with, decided to leave me under the understanding that she was only leaving temporarily, that she just needed time apart and that she had every intention of coming back.

In 12 days, it will have been one year since. I tried everything I could to rebuild our relationship. I went through a terrible depression, completely loathed myself, and had constant thoughts of suicide. I was coming close to making everything work out, completely turned my life around for this girl and our son so we could all be a family again. About a month ago, things greatly started to improve and she was even about to come back and were were going to be together again. Everything I had worked for in the last year was finally about to pay off, but in the end I ended up getting hurt once again.

Today I got my son for christmas eve and she came to pick him up after work. Having us all together made me feel so down, rather than being happy in that moment, all I could think about was how things will never be like this ever again. When they left I completely lost it. In an instant I went from being happy and content to feeling absolutely miserable. We started texting and she asked me what was wrong, so I told her.

She told me that I should start trying to date other people. It completely broke my heart to see that from her. For a year I held out hope that she still wanted to be with me, that she still loved me, that she wanted our family together again. She's pretty much telling me that I should move on at this point. I can't move on. I can't just let go of a 7 year long relationship. Trust me, over the last year I've tried as hard as I could to move on, to accept that she isn't coming back. Even if I wanted to move on, even if I tried, she would always be in the back of my mind. I could never love anyone else the way they deserve to be.

So now I will be spending christmas alone, one week later I will be spending my birthday alone, and then 6 days after that constantly reminded that one year ago that day I lost everything that mattered most to me forever. It was also 3 years ago today that we decided that we were going to get married. So that kind of makes this all sting a little bit extra.

Man, you sound weak as fukk. Was this your first girl?? You made a kid with her. She served her purpose. fukk that bytch. Worry about your kid and get your mind right. It's 2012. We ain't crying over bytches anymore.

 

[Sweet James]

I pity your child. Neither of you parents remembered to marry before procreating.

I don't understand why she didn't abort your son. You are good enough to spawn with, but not good enough to marry? On what does she base these monumental life choices?

After 6-7 years with no marriage, SHE MOVED ON WITH HER LIFE. Did you expect her to hang out forever? Perhaps you will find the next chick who will give you 6-7 more years & another b*stard kid. *shrug*

AND WHY MUST YOU CHANGE YOUR LIFE IN ORDER TO LURE HER BACK? Are you a felon or satanist or serial cheater or some such? What major fault of yours repels this gal? You aren't telling us some substantial thing. -_-

--> aq out

 

[Gus Money]

Read the first paragraph, the skipped to the end hoping to see "You're moving with your aunty and uncle in Bel-Air" But it didn't come, it just didn't come. This shyt is too sad brehs

No joke, I did the exact same thing when I opened this thread. I hate hearing about breakup stories.

To the OP, everyone else already said all that can already be said. Just keep it moving. Obviously you can't completely cut her out of your life since you've got a kid, but you'll be ok, breh.

 

[Born2BKing]

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[thegreatwb]

So you think there is like nothing else I can do to make her realize she is making a mistake? I should just move on completely?

 

[Mook]

My older brother is going through the same situation. He and his babymama been having problems as of late but he thought they had worked them out. About two weeks ago he finds out she been creepin with a dude. They stayed seperated for a few days but then she came back crying, talking about it was a mistake.

Last night she runs off in the middle of a famil dinner at her mama's crib, my brother drives home and finds out it is one of the neighbors (he don't really know his neighbors like that). Of all days the foul chick gonna pull this ish on Christmas eve. My bro came to my crib crying, first time i have seen him cry as a grown man.

I swear if I wasn't on the side of law and order I would go put the beats on ol boy. My brother about twice my size, and dude is a lil scrawny punk, so I know my bro would rip his head off, but he not trying to catch a charge.

Worse yet, my brother used to be in the game, but went legit and started a business with his baby mama, and will still have to see her everyday.

both you and your brother got tendencies of a bytch ass nikka.

rofl @ beating the guy who doesnt know u two even exist, but letting that c*nt go untouched. fukking losers

 

[Omerta]

That sucks man.

But you have to realize the only true love is between the creator and the creation. So you can't ever put anyone else above that. It's clear you've done that, which is why you feel so bad.

Try and get back into a normal routine, be normal with her and if it's written for you then she will come back. Anything that doesn't require sacrifice isn't worth it.

 

[Ethnic Vagina Finder]

women out number us 4 to 1

 

[SouthernBelle]

Sex isn't everything believe it or not.

It's not. She may or may not be having sex with someone. I went 2.5 years after me and my first boyfriend broke up.

Was there some event that lead to her wanting to break up, or had things just built up for a long time?

 

[FreedS[ohh]lave]

lovin hoes we off dat

Just smash and leave them breh they aint made to stay with

 

[MouseTeeth]

If u dead a chick. It's likely it's gonna take forever for her to leave u alone.

But if she deads U. More than likely she's on to the next guy. It's over.

The best thing u can do is sever ties and move on. Focus on yourself and I guarantee the right person will come along when u least expect it. And guess what, when you're finally over this bytch and everything is going well, she's gonna pop right back up in ur life expecting u to drop everything for her. And that's when you get to hit her w the n I tell ya, ain't no feeling in the world better than that. Time heals all keep it movin n don't dwell on a girl who doesn't want u anyway.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

Sad thread. I was there not too long ago. Like others said, it's over and done. She may eventually come back years later, but it wouldn't be the same.

I know it feels like you'll never get over it, and I know all you want is the pain to go away, but all you can do is wait it out. You *will* get over it in time, and you *will* feel better and you *will* recover.

Worst pain ever. 2013 is gonna be a long year. It's gonna get worse before it gets better. Hang in there breh breh. You'll be alright.

 

[kermit da hustla]

There are some good women out there.