All my single 30plus year ol coli females.....still have hope on marriage?

[Malta]

The smart thing to do is run around but keep yourself in shape, then marry a woman 20 years younger than you. By the time she's either tired of you, or herself you'll be in the twilight of your life so who cares. Then you can use the retirement money on hoes in Brazil, Dominican Republic etc.

 

[Poitier]

You think that flab and sickness looks better just because you're old and disgusting?

That's where copious amounts of porn come in

 

[charmander]

That's where copious amounts of porn come in

lets go

 

[Ashley Banks]

The smart thing to do is run around but keep yourself in shape, then marry a woman 20 years younger than you. By the time she's either tired of you, or herself you'll be in the twilight of your life so who cares. Then you can use the retirement money on hoes in Brazil, Dominican Republic etc.

Is that what you're gonna do?

What's the smart thing for women to do? Get married then have our husband leave us when we get old to spend money on women in Brazil and the DR?

I still love the lupe smiley. lmao

 

[Ashley Banks]

You WON!!!!

Go away.

 

[Malta]

Is that what you're gonna do?

What's the smart thing for women to do?

I still love the lupe smiley. lmao

I have my woman but if I didn't I'd probably do that That said if it doesn't work out, I will still be in shape and I won't have another relationship again.

For women? Find a good dude that wants you, put him in the friendzone and make him earn it. He may not make your crotch tingle or he could be boring, but if he puts up with the zone and comes through it the odds of him leaving you are lower. Personally, most dudes want a female that is attractive but also just nice to be around, low drama and what not. I don't know about other dudes but I don't ask for much, which is why it's so mind boggling why what I want is so difficult to find today.


Start giving "ugly" dudes a chance, men you know don't have a ton of options They may not set off sparks, but they'll probably be with you long term cause they know that famine they went through prior to meeting you was too real.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I have my woman but if I didn't I'd probably do that That said if it doesn't work out, I will still be in shape and I won't have another relationship again.

For women? Find a good dude that wants you, put him in the friendzone and make him earn it. He may not make your crotch tingle or he could be boring, but if he puts up with the zone and comes through it the odds of him leaving you are lower. Personally, most dudes want a female that is attractive but also just nice to be around, low drama and what not. I don't know about other dudes but I don't ask for much, which is why it's so mind boggling why what I want is so difficult to find today.


Start giving "ugly" dudes a chance, men you know don't have a ton of options They may not set off sparks, but they'll probably be with you long term cause they know that famine they went through prior to meeting you was too real.

Thanks, breh.

 

[Malta]

Thanks, breh.

And don't believe the corny dudes that say all the right things, that's the chameleon breh that talks about how other men do this, other men do that and how much different they are in comparison. The compassionate shark, women still fall for that shyt which is comical.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

That's not fair, @Malta.

They deserve a passionate love too.

I seen friends married from friend-zones and security and they got
divorces two to three years later.

That don't work either

 

[Malta]

That's not fair, @Malta.

They deserve a passionate love too.

I seen friends married from friend-zones and security and they got
divorces two to three years later.

That don't work either

So basically you women are up shyts creek messing with these heathen demonic ass nikkas?

 

[BedRoomI'z]

So basically you women are up shyts creek messing with these heathen demonic ass nikkas?

Not necessarily, if they catch the dumb shyt early enough
to correct their mistakes, but hey, like anything, it's a roll of the dice.

Don't get it twisted those sweet, I will comfort you and I may not know
the right things to say dudes have their problems too, like they can be
controlling. Especially if a woman opt to marry him for security purposes.

 

[Malta]

Not necessarily, if they catch the dumb shyt early enough
to correct their mistakes, but hey, like anything, it's a roll of the dice.

Don't get it twisted those sweet, I will comfort you and I may not know
the right things to say dudes have their problems too, like they can be
controlling. Especially if a woman opt to marry him for security purposes.

The odds don't seem to be in anyones favor anymore

 

[BedRoomI'z]

The odds don't seem to be in anyones favor anymore

That's what makes love special, the fact that everyone
is not destined to get it.

But you live and love anyway

 

[Anothergirl]

So basically you women are up shyts creek messing with these heathen demonic ass nikkas?

that's where dating out comes into play in my opinion. if they can't find the "quality" of black man they're looking for and don't want to settle for an ugly one ......there's a planet full of good looking men from a multitude of different races and cultures. it's up to sistas to open up their minds and get on board with exploring those options (granted they keep themselves up/in shape those options shouldn't be a problem) get in where you fit in ya know?

 

[dc007]

that's where dating out comes into play in my opinion. if they can't find the "quality" of black man they're looking for and don't want to settle for an ugly one ......there's a planet full of good looking men from a multitude of different races and cultures. it's up to sistas to open up their minds and get on board with exploring those options (granted they keep themselves up/in shape those options shouldn't be a problem) get in where you fit in ya know?

Any quality black woman can find a quality black man. A lot of women who think they are quality aren't, which is where the problem lies. For these women who are finding these "other men", my question would be are they behaving the same way they did when they were dating black men?