Technically we all pay. Now you might not of straight gave a woman cash. But what’s the difference between paying 250 at a steakhouse and giving her 250 to smash? By taking her to dinner you just prolonging it.
This a transactional mindset. Youre complaining about the same thing you're empowering. A $250 whore has a substance abuse problem, is regular as hell, or has mental issues (likely all three). Basic porn h0es get paid more than that. Is that really the caliber of woman you want tk be sliding into, breh? You gotta respect yourself first if you want anybody else to.
One difference should be the caliber of woman but lames take h0es to to a steakhouse all the time. Its part of what makes them tricks.
I took a woman to a steakhouse at a similar price point this past weekend but i have boundaries and a protocol around how I spend my time.
1. I dont take women to places they cant afford on their own. She acts like shes been there before because she probably has.
2. If im spending $300 on a dinner date its because I was going to go on my own regardless and decided this time I wanted to some company with a pretty high caliber woman.
3. $300 dinner date is earned not given, regardless of whether she can afford it or not. If you haven't given me shxt besides some box thats not even on the table.
4. I dont entertain birds regardless of what she looks like and how much she makes. Just "being pretty" aint getting you shxt (not even d!ck) from me by default. Pretty is a base requirement, it doesnt elevate you into anything else. I value my time and I've dealt with enough pretty women to not be walking around like some nose wide open teenager that just started fuking. Whats her convo like, her ambition level, her emotional intelligence? Those are what last.
5. I dont spend time where dusty birds spend time. Spending time in the junkyard means youre dealing with trash, spending time in the jewelry store means youre dealing with gems.
When you have your shxt together as a man it makes you rare by default and women with their shxt together will treat you like that or they know you can keep it moving and find another high quality bw in a matter of a week.
But if connecting with women is solely about busting a nut you can just go to p0rnhub and do it for free.