Men give women entirely to much attention and validation. Anything a person has very easy access to loses its value quickly.
This sloppy bodied broad probably has a 100 other men in her DMs telling her how nice looking she is and trying to get in her pants, so this guy reaching out to her means nothing. He’s just another man in a string of many trying to holla.
If you don’t have a silver tongue and she’s not extremely attracted to you from the jump this is the response you likely get.
If men stopped giving her that same volume of attention, she’d likely respond to any man’s reaching out to her much differently. A lot of men see a phat azz and lose their mind though and end up overplaying their hand.
Just like women are generally the gatekeepers of sex and who they give their p*ssy to men are the gatekeepers of the attention and validation that fuels most women. Men need to be as selective about who they give their attention and validation to at the same rate women are selective about who they give their p*ssy to.
close mouth don't get fed
if this is the woman u want specifically you have to say something
If she has the attention of 100 dudes you have to stand out in some way
can't be mad she is getting all that attention
plus as the man approaching the woman, its your responsibility to carry the conversation
she wasn't even aware of your existence before ur dm and you saying hi doesn't left her much to work with
you the one that wants her attention so you should have something to offer
and nyggas stay talking bout women feeling entitled she dont own you a conversation
this is really true too, buying women flowers on the first date
