Allow Yourself To Be A Cuckold Brehs

[bogey_j]

Stuck in a rut — our once-a-week sex life was loving, but lacked spontaneity and passion — I was craving seduction and sexual abandon. I was having a midlife crisis and chasing this profound, deeply rooted experience of being female.

Before then, starting a family had felt like one route to this elusive state of feminine fulfilment. But Scott had made it absolutely clear he never wanted a baby, and even had a vasectomy.

Many people will find this hard to understand, but, as the door to motherhood closed, I found myself rushing towards this whole other outlet of heightened female experience — taking lovers.

women without children after a certain age go grazy. remember this brehs

I’d always been “the good girl,” and had slept with only three guys before getting involved with Scott at the age of 26. I was pretty conservative.

three by 26 in pretty good in this day & age

Sexually, I was experiencing what happens to a lot of women in their late 30s and early 40s. I was approaching my sexual peak and was relaxing into myself.

what's with women thinking that they hit their sexual peek in their late 30's and 40's? when did that bullshyt myth start?

I broke the news to Scott that I wanted an open marriage in early 2008, a few months after his vasectomy. “I won’t go to my grave with no children and four lovers,” I told him repeatedly. “I refuse.” Against the idea at first, he eventually relented.

I will never understand men that are willingly cuckold'd

According to our deal, I’d rent a studio apartment during the week and come back to our home on weekends. Both of us could sleep with whomever we chose as long as we used protection. It was a case of “don’t ask, don’t tell.”

My first step was placing an ad on nerve.com, a kind of intellectual version of the online personal listing. Under the heading: “Good girl seeks experience,” it read: “I’m a 44-year-old professional, educated, attractive woman in an open marriage, seeking single men age 35-50 to help me explore my sexuality. You must be trustworthy, smart, and skilled at conversation as well as in bed.”

I added: “Our time together will be limited to three dates as I cannot become seriously involved.”

Within 24 hours, my inbox offered up 23 prospective suitors.

.
​

But the lessons I learned weren’t purely physical. They were about growing up, making mistakes, learning to live without so much fear, owning up to my dark side and, eventually, finding out the difference between being a “good girl” and a good person.
Click to expand...
But, by the end of the 12-month project, moving back home full time proved more difficult than I had thought. After you open up a marriage and experience a whole range of sexual variety and aspects of yourself you’ve never had before, it’s hard to put everything back in the box.

You’re changed.

I slept with a total of 12 people (including two women) during the Wild Oats Project.

Suddenly I found an updated version of myself. The person I was at 44 was so much different than the woman I’d been when I was last single at 26. She was less shy, more confident, wilder.

The turning point was hearing from Alden (one of the men she committed adultery with). He sent me an email, out of the blue, several months after the project had come to an end.

Before long, we were having sex again. Being with him was exquisite. After reconnecting with Alden and falling deeply in love with him, there was no going back.

​

the cuckold got left

Five years on, Alden and I are happily living together. It’s a regular, monogamous relationship. I’m grateful I experienced my marriage to Scott (who has since found a new partner) but now, for this part of my life, I believe being with someone who is the most temperamentally like me is where I can learn more.

.​

Wife beds strangers to save marriage​

and now she's wrote a book about her slutdom

moral of the story is: be a cuckold brehs

 

[William F. Russell]

These women


Even when they get what they supposedly want, they can still never be satisfied.


....and #GMB

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Cac problems

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

#GMB

 

[Cabbage Patch]

Hes not a cuckold, he was tired of her and just going through the motions. Marriage gave them a public face until they could extract themselves from each other.

Her rationalizations are transparent and offensive.

 

[Diondon]

 

[bogey_j]

These women


Even when they get what they supposedly want, they can still never be satisfied.


....and #GMB

what are the chances she cheats on the next breh who wifed her?

she got turnt out. ain't no going back

 

[Vandelay]

The moment she said she wanted an open relationship, I would have said cool. Got my money right, got in shape (assuming I'm in middle age.), got a lawyer and slow-walk the process to single-dom.

Cheating is obvious disrespect, but the fact she openly indicated she wanted other encounters with people is a whole 'nother level.

I'd prefer a woman to tell me straight up she's tired of it. I'd initially be pissed, but I'd get over it. Sounds like she did him a solid. Especially if he didn't get hit with alimony.

 

[Vandelay]

Hes not a cuckold, he was tired of her and just going through the motions. Marriage gave them a public face until they could extract themselves from each other.

Her rationalizations are transparent and offensive.

This basically.

 

[CarbonBraddock]

Even though this is fake, the story would have ended at this whore telling me she wanted an open marriage. No adult possessing average intelligence would get married without making sure they were on the same page as their partner on something as important as having children. But then you see this idiot's thoughts and realize it is a dumbass female or at least it's how they think. They're jokes. Absolute jokes. If I somehow got married and my wife had the audacity to say some shyt like this to me, I would be getting the divorce papers as soon as possible.

 

[Guile]

hope he aint paying alimony

 

[Cabbage Patch]

Even though this is fake, the story would have ended at this whore telling me she wanted an open marriage. No adult possessing average intelligence would get married without making sure they were on the same page as their partner on something as important as having children. But then you see this idiot's thoughts and realize it is a dumbass female or at least it's how they think. They're jokes. Absolute jokes. If I somehow got married and my wife had the audacity to say some shyt like this to me, I would be getting the divorce papers as soon as possible.

She got married at 26 (old for a white woman) to one up her girfriends.

He got married to shut her up. How old was he?

10 to one he had been upfront the whole time about not wanting children, and she thought she would convince him via an 'accidental' pregnancy. He got the vasectomy and she couldnt go that route.... and she couldnt have a 'doesnt count' fling and pass the baby off as his.

10 to one he didnt care also bcause he had a Maria Calla to his Aristotle the whole time in the background.

So this chick fukks around until she finds a replacement and suddenly her midlife sexual peak disappears. Bullshyt.

 

[Cabbage Patch]

Alimony

hope he aint paying alimony

Stops with remarriage, right?

 

[bogey_j]

She got married at 26 (old for a white woman) to one up her girfriends.

He got married to shut her up. How old was he?

10 to one he had been upfront the whole time about not wanting children, and she thought she would convince him via an 'accidental' pregnancy. He got the vasectomy and she couldnt go that route.... and she couldnt have a 'doesnt count' fling and pass the baby off as his.

10 to one he didnt care also bcause he had a Maria Calla to his Aristotle the whole time in the background.

So this chick fukks around until she finds a replacement and suddenly her midlife sexual peak disappears. Bullshyt.

so FOUL how some women do this mang...

 

[A1aaa]

a real badman would've agreed, lawyered up, hired a PI to catch her in the act and pretended that this "open relationship" agreement never existed during divorce proceedings. cash out.