Almost 20% of singles run a background check on their dates

kaldurahm

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I found this out the hard way. @Neuromancer tried to warn me. These women is out here running our names through db's these days.

It's a lil uncomfortable to me. I have nothing bad to hide, but I'm a private person too.
This is how I feel, :patrice:. It makes sense and I don't blame them.. I don't have nothing to hide either but :patrice:.

When I was doing online dating Id do a video chat before meeting up
 

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I had a girl during the date tell me she did a background check and then after said date told me she took a snap of my tag and sent it to her friends just in case:francis:

Told her I enjoyed our time, but it best we end things here. I understand the caution, but thats too much :yeshrug:
 

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Im lukewarm on this. If you meet a person off the street/night club then I can understand it. A lot of people wont be upfront about jail time/crimes. But it does seem a bit of a turn off if someone mentions it to you. Like they think your a criminal before they get to know you.
 

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I had a girl during the date tell me she did a background check and then after said date told me she took a snap of my tag and sent it to her friends just in case:francis:

Told her I enjoyed our time, but it best we end things here. I understand the caution, but thats too much :yeshrug:
Her dumb ass didn’t need to open her mouth, but that isn’t wrong 🤷🏾‍♀️

And did she get in your car on the first date? If so- That’s why she did that. And a silly move.
 

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I do that its a good way to find out if someone is lying about their age.

You doing background checks on dudes looking like

fellowkids.jpg


to see if they lying about being 25.


:dead:
 

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Had my info removed from all these background sites a while ago. Google my name and you won’t find shyt
 

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I figured women are pretty much on this wave, makes sense.

It’s weird as a guy to think I’d background check a female. Usually, I’ll get a good idea of who I’m dealing with in the first few minutes.

I’d be interested to see where and what mines looks like as I don’t think I’ve dated any woman that has done that to me. Or at least they never told me they’ve done one on me.

Outside of checking social media I have, I think that’s the furthest any woman has done a check on me

Interested to see what type of information that i would consider private is available for public viewing
 
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