That's comes with experience
If you are a black inner city guy.
I would think you have been approaching females publically.
as an actual way of life since at least fifth, sixth grade.
Plus definitely, and definitively approaching females.
since at the very least a sophomore in high school. So none of the issue with rejection or experience should be present. If, the general you as a black man have issues with holler'n..
You need to:
Holla, holla, holla
Like the Dave chappelle situation and get to being massively rejected.
Being rejected should have happened a lot.
by the time a black man is eighteen, to be honest.
From living down south in a small town.
I can see the number of available and actual visible black women to approach is lacking. So I could see the disconnect to that reality for someone who is not urban, rather easily.
If you from a major city tho.
You should be well versed in dealing with rejection.
If you are formerly was with the prettiest girl in seventh grade till high school type and beyond. I could see you being behind in that situation. As you are like a married man who became a divorcee. So you do not necessarily fit Into this typical situation. as you would be an exception to the rule. As logically you are a ramp up from the top yield of the harvest type. Who probably was only with one woman. So you have to deal with change in eras as far as dating. Making you the exception to the rule. Yet outside that. I would think an urban black male is well versed in taking rejection from any and all types[races].
Art Barr
