Alpha Male Strategies Thread

[Shadow King]

Seems like the biggest oxymoron, but that happens a lot. How does one who holds all the cards, and have all the advantage STILL find away to be insecure, jealous, even dangerous?

Probably got by on looks early in life and a bytch he cared about got her face painted by an older nikka with money.

 

[MaxPain]

Lmaooooo

Still gon work

 

[paperbag]

I'm more apt to fall prey to the fake connection, emotional maniputalion type player. That seems to be too much work for most these days

The come to my house, or drinks date thing always gets an automatic no from me, so it's not an issue and they move on to a more accomadating female

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

I'm more apt to fall prey to the fake connection, emotional maniputalion type player. That seems to be too much work for most these days

The come to my house, or drinks date thing always gets an automatic no from me, so it's not an issue and they move on to a more accomadating female

Do you go to their house?

 

[T'krm]

... that was just with him tho... like I was infatuated, in love and all that. I was scared of getting too caught up and that was my defense mechanism.

You probably put it on him!
Lost focus, got discombobulated, and fukked up in the game

 

[T'krm]

I'm more apt to fall prey to the fake connection, emotional maniputalion type player. That seems to be too much work for most these days

The come to my house, or drinks date thing always gets an automatic no from me, so it's not an issue and they move on to a more accomadating female

What, like holding a carrot over ur head to keep you going(coming)?

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

You probably put it on him!
Lost focus, got discombobulated, and fukked up in the game

Lol...I definitely was; he had me out of character. He may have been. Long time before I bounced back from that one.

 

[TEH]

He’s an obvious homosexual doing this for likes and views

 

[T'krm]

Lol...I definitely was; he had me out of character. He may have been Long time before I bounced back from that one.

Prolly was in tailspin for a while...but explain this?

Nah but my last girl was 38 and had been married for like 15 years...but she told me I was her best sex and she overlooked the fact I was broke,homeless,arrested and let me get away with alot of shyt

She had an IT career...was making enough money to where her ex husband was getting alimony.

Oh shyt..... r u my ex???

 

[Coco Loco]

@DarlingNikki @CarmelBarbie @BlackPearl The Empress @CinnaSlim @ShadowBroker @AsTheWorldBurns @Nicole0416 @paperbag @Elle Driver @Coco Loco @Booksnrain @Boujee Bonita Braxton

Yall ladies wanna answer

1. If we can’t establish a mental/emotional connection I’m not interested.
2. See number one
3. Boundaries and standards are important. I don’t settle on either. I cussed a dude out on our first convo for expecting me to break my prior plans that day for him. I could see he was trying to control me immediately and cut him off.
4. I can play text and call back games too. I’m a woman, I always have options if he’s playing games. Rule #1 is I don’t blow up phones. He saw my call and or text. Rule #2 I treat men how they treat me. If he goes days without contact fine but keep that same energy when I go ghost too.
5. Again, standards and boundaries are serious to me. I know my worth and none of this would fly with me. I don’t do personal spaces until we are comfortable with one another.
6. Early sexy talk is a red flag. Usually I put those types on the back burner.
7. I don’t need him to validate my attractiveness. I’m a Leo. I know why he’s here
8. Again, I’m Leo. It won’t work lmaoooo
9. It’s not gonna work. My value isn’t placed on how sexually connected we are. Mental and emotional connections are far more important
10. If we don’t have a connection, I wouldn’t be surprised if he leaves. What else is there to keep him around?

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Prolly was in tailspin for a while...but explain this?

Lmao... I was kidding. But the man that I was describing in thi thread had similar characteristics- wasn’t holding down a steady job/income, didn’t have his own place, let him use my car, I was holding us down bc I had my career going on, my own place ... I was trying to help him out and felt he wasn’t being appreciative... That’s what I was alluding to.

 

[paperbag]

Do you go to their house?

Nope. I decline, take my L , and stop responding to text or calls

What, like holding a carrot over ur head to keep you going(coming)?

They initially are emotionally availableb, cupcaking, deep conversation. Then they switch up. But they already got you, and there's nothing you can do.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

He’s an obvious homosexual doing this for likes and views

That’s probably why I stopped listening after 2 mins.... seems like a forced attention grab, the whole vibe was off.

 

[Krazy K]

Yeah... I have. He was also very good looking, very handsome compared to other men in my past. Deadly combination..... i let him get away with certain things where if he wasn’t... I would have been gone.

I must be really good looking or I've always been the best they had because every woman I know has said this to me.
Funny because idgaf how bad a woman is. Looks can't buy you a pass with me

 

[T'krm]

1. If we can’t establish a mental/emotional connection I’m not interested.
2. See number one
3. Boundaries and standards are important. I don’t settle on either. I cussed a dude out on our first convo for expecting me to break my prior plans that day for him. I could see he was trying to control me immediately and cut him off.
4. I can play text and call back games too. I’m a woman, I always have options if he’s playing games. Rule #1 is I don’t blow up phones. He saw my call and or text. Rule #2 I treat men how they treat me. If he goes days without contact fine but keep that same energy when I go ghost too.
5. Again, standards and boundaries are serious to me. I know my worth and none of this would fly with me. I don’t do personal spaces until we are comfortable with one another.
6. Early sexy talk is a red flag. Usually I put those types on the back burner.
7. I don’t need him to validate my attractiveness. Again, I’m a Leo. I know why he’s here
8. I’m Leo. It won’t work lmaoooo
9. It’s not gonna work. My value isn’t placed on how sexually connected we are. Mental and emotional connections are far more important
10. If we don’t have a connection, I wouldn’t be surprised if he leaves. What else is there to keep him around?

at the thorough break down

Lmao... I was kidding. But the man that I was describing in thi thread had similar characteristics- wasn’t holding down a steady job/income, didn’t have his own place, let him use my car, I was holding us down bc I had my career going on, my own place ... I was trying to help him out and felt he wasn’t being appreciative... That’s what I was alluding to.

Nope. I decline, take my L , and stop responding to text or calls


They initially are emotionally availableb, cupcaking, deep conversation. Then they switch up. But they already got you, and there's nothing you can do.

They still be texting
Straight caught like a mouse trap! Huh?