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:pachaha: I must be really good looking or I've always been the best they had because every woman I know has said this to me.
Funny because idgaf how bad a woman is. Looks can't buy you a pass with me
You probably are. But I think everyone has that one person they gave more passes to than they should have. No matter what you think that you’ll do or won’t; or standards that you establish for yourself - there’s something about that person that challenges those concepts. Hadn’t happened to me before that and hasn’t since. Idk... just my opinion. And I’m not one of those women that has all these rules or guidelines bc I don’t think everything applies to every situation- I think that a certain amount of submissiveness is necessary as a female but I know his Looks, how he carried himself and the intimacy had me more open.
 

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You probably put it on him!
Lost focus, got discombobulated, and fukked up in the game:deadmanny:
One example - He crashed my X5 and I
Let it go like he told me he forgot to take out the trash on trash day.
:stopitslime::martin:

Scust .. why was I tagged in this thread. I shouldn’t have even commented... .. memories in my feels...sheesh . Smh. Im
out.
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The real title to this is "shyt Chicks with Daddy Issues Fall For"

These dudes aren't simps. They are filling a hole in some women's mental development b/c they grew up in households without strong father figures.

Everything he said was true. But I take shyt like this for granted b/c of the men in my family and the way I was raised.
Hell Im infinessable. Ain't NEVER got played a day in my life and have been treated uber well by men. And you don't have to be a dyme. You just have to not be a doormat and know who you are as a woman and respect yourself.

The shyt I hear about online or from some females baffles me. I have full autonomy over my life and body.
Da fukk you mean you afraid of a dude ghosting you?

You do realize that a man who truly cares about you will have no problems spending time with you and you don't have to even hint at sex.

Splitting bills?! Dudes fukking you and leaving?!
I have laughed at dudes who tried these lil mind games in the past and then they become emotional target practice for trying me like a bytch.
Once a dude attempts to be a user, it's game on. I get a thrill from humbling them. Why? Because I was bouncing thru life happy as fukk and you tried to take advantage of me. Now I'm taking ur money, eviserating ur manhood, stringing u along just enough to think you getting p*ssy, being oh so sweet as I gain enough information on you to hit you with every one of ur weaknesses you didn't even realize was obvious to others. And I may or may not fukk ur barber and have him with the shaky T-Rex wrists when he fukkin up ur hairline.

And if you mad about it, you make sure you take them bytch ass emotions and keep ur hands to urself b/c a lot of dudes wanna get violent when they can't treat you like shyt. But I keep a loaded 12 gauge at the crib, a 9 mm and a knife sharp enough to dust split ends. You will come out better trying these dumb ass tricks on fatherless joints with low self-esteem b/c most ain't having it.


...unless we in love...and then all that bullshyt I wrote prior to this sentence is obsolete.
:mjlol:
@CorporateTrapper is right LMAO!!!
 

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You probably are. But I think everyone has that one person they gave more passes to than they should have. No matter what you think that you’ll do or won’t; or standards that you establish for yourself - there’s something about that person that challenges those concepts. Hadn’t happened to me before that and hasn’t since. Idk... just my opinion. And I’m not one of those women that has all these rules or guidelines bc I don’t think everything applies to every situation- I think that a certain amount of submissiveness is necessary as a female but I know his Looks, how he carried himself and the intimacy had me more open.
I'm sure I've given passes to certain women I'm just saying it's not based on looks.
 

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I was very briefly dating a guy who kept saying he doesn't like texting or talking on the phone.

The main red flag was when I told him when we hang out nothing was going to happen (as in no sex). He immediately got on his soap box about me saying that and changed our date to a "PG" hangout...he used those types of words to make me feel "silly" or "less of a woman"...When I told him we have different opinions on what dating is (he believed dating HAS to include sex, I believe it is JUST going on dates and getting to know each other), he told me I didn't know enough to know what dating is and that I had it wrong. After he said that, it was over.

Definitely was a pick up artist, he met most of the criteria in the video. He's the reason I decided not to date for a while...it was a major turn off.
 

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One example - He crashed my X5 and I
Let it go like he told me he forgot to take out the trash on trash day.
:stopitslime::martin:

Scust .. why was I tagged in this thread. I shouldn’t have even commented... .. memories in my feels...sheesh . Smh. Im
out.
:snooze:
:gladbron: had you like that?
He has such a punchable face
:deadrose:
The real title to this is "shyt Chicks with Daddy Issues Fall For"

These dudes aren't simps. They are filling a hole in some women's mental development b/c they grew up in households without strong father figures.

Everything he said was true. But I take shyt like this for granted b/c of the men in my family and the way I was raised.
Hell Im infinessable. Ain't NEVER got played a day in my life and have been treated uber well by men. And you don't have to be a dyme. You just have to not be a doormat and know who you are as a woman and respect yourself.

The shyt I hear about online or from some females baffles me. I have full autonomy over my life and body.
Da fukk you mean you afraid of a dude ghosting you?

You do realize that a man who truly cares about you will have no problems spending time with you and you don't have to even hint at sex.

Splitting bills?! Dudes fukking you and leaving?!
I have laughed at dudes who tried these lil mind games in the past and then they become emotional target practice for trying me like a bytch.
Once a dude attempts to be a user, it's game on. I get a thrill from humbling them. Why? Because I was bouncing thru life happy as fukk and you tried to take advantage of me. Now I'm taking ur money, eviserating ur manhood, stringing u along just enough to think you getting p*ssy, being oh so sweet as I gain enough information on you to hit you with every one of ur weaknesses you didn't even realize was obvious to others. And I may or may not fukk ur barber and have him with the shaky T-Rex wrists when he fukkin up ur hairline.

And if you mad about it, you make sure you take them bytch ass emotions and keep ur hands to urself b/c a lot of dudes wanna get violent when they can't treat you like shyt. But I keep a loaded 12 gauge at the crib, a 9 mm and a knife sharp enough to dust split ends. You will come out better trying these dumb ass tricks on fatherless joints with low self-esteem b/c most ain't having it.


...unless we in love...and then all that bullshyt I wrote prior to this sentence is obsolete.
:mjlol:
@CorporateTrapper is right LMAO!!!
:russ: at the spoiler
I was very briefly dating a guy who kept saying he doesn't like texting or talking on the phone.

The main red flag was when I told him when we hang out nothing was going to happen (as in no sex). He immediately got on his soap box about me saying that and changed our date to a "PG" hangout...he used those types of words to make me feel "silly" or "less of a woman"...When I told him we have different opinions on what dating is (he believed dating HAS to include sex, I believe it is JUST going on dates and getting to know each other), he told me I didn't know enough to know what dating is and that I had it wrong. After he said that, it was over.

Definitely was a pick up artist, he met most of the criteria in the video. He's the reason I decided not to date for a while...it was a major turn off.
So you didn't fall for it...
You pick up, yet?
 

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  1. If we can’t establish a mental/emotional connection I’m not interested.
  2. See number one
  3. Boundaries and standards are important. I don’t settle on either. I cussed a dude out on our first convo for expecting me to break my prior plans that day for him. I could see he was trying to control me immediately and cut him off.
  4. I can play text and call back games too. I’m a woman, I always have options if he’s playing games. Rule #1 is I don’t blow up phones. He saw my call and or text. Rule #2 I treat men how they treat me. If he goes days without contact fine but keep that same energy when I go ghost too.
  5. Again, standards and boundaries are serious to me. I know my worth and none of this would fly with me. I don’t do personal spaces until we are comfortable with one another.
  6. Early sexy talk is a red flag. Usually I put those types on the back burner.
  7. I don’t need him to validate my attractiveness. I’m a Leo. I know why he’s here
  8. Again, I’m Leo. It won’t work lmaoooo
  9. It’s not gonna work. My value isn’t placed on how sexually connected we are. Mental and emotional connections are far more important
  10. If we don’t have a connection, I wouldn’t be surprised if he leaves. What else is there to keep him around?

Cut out the astrology bs, and this is a solid blueprint for women to weed out nikkas selling dreams. :ehh:
 

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:mjlol: at all these reverse jedi mind tricks we think we're playing. And mostly what is the end result?
@HarlemHottie you do this, too?
:russ:They weren't tricks, I really didn't gaf in my single days. I didn't want or need shyt but cab fare and some dikk. I wasn't cupcaking or sharing feelings. To my surprise, that's what got these commitment-phobic nikkas open, on some Drake and Rihanna shyt. All I wanted was some dikk and you wanna take me home to help rebuild your country. I'm good, b. #savagelife

:hhh:
 

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Yeah... I have. He was also very good looking, very handsome compared to other men in my past. Deadly combination..... i let him get away with certain things where if he wasn’t... I would have been gone. Then when I did dump him, he stalked me for a long time. He was very jealous, controlling and demanding and I wouldn’t have let that slide with any other dude. Ignored red flags .. I also gave him access to certain things that was stupid looking back- passwords, etc so he could feel more secure. Let my guard down ... toxic on all fronts.

I still think about that dude from time to time
:francis::mjcry:..tbh... I dont even know why
You know why and it begins with d.
 

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Be direct and respectful with women and it will be fine.

Men do all you want to do and go where you want to go, she’ll fall in line.

My issue is meeting quality women because I’m in a relationship. I literally was in one and transferred to my current one.
 

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  1. If we can’t establish a mental/emotional connection I’m not interested.
  2. See number one
  3. Boundaries and standards are important. I don’t settle on either. I cussed a dude out on our first convo for expecting me to break my prior plans that day for him. I could see he was trying to control me immediately and cut him off.
  4. I can play text and call back games too. I’m a woman, I always have options if he’s playing games. Rule #1 is I don’t blow up phones. He saw my call and or text. Rule #2 I treat men how they treat me. If he goes days without contact fine but keep that same energy when I go ghost too.
  5. Again, standards and boundaries are serious to me. I know my worth and none of this would fly with me. I don’t do personal spaces until we are comfortable with one another.
  6. Early sexy talk is a red flag. Usually I put those types on the back burner.
  7. I don’t need him to validate my attractiveness. I’m a Leo. I know why he’s here
  8. Again, I’m Leo. It won’t work lmaoooo
  9. It’s not gonna work. My value isn’t placed on how sexually connected we are. Mental and emotional connections are far more important
  10. If we don’t have a connection, I wouldn’t be surprised if he leaves. What else is there to keep him around?
1-3 make sense. I respect your system. How many long term relationships have you been in and do you have variety in your dating pool?

Your sun sign is in Leo. What's your Venus look like?

How you act in relationships is a combination of things in your natal chart, and they're expressed through your sun sign.
 

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The real title to this is "shyt Chicks with Daddy Issues Fall For"

These dudes aren't simps. They are filling a hole in some women's mental development b/c they grew up in households without strong father figures.

Everything he said was true. But I take shyt like this for granted b/c of the men in my family and the way I was raised.
Hell Im infinessable. Ain't NEVER got played a day in my life and have been treated uber well by men. And you don't have to be a dyme. You just have to not be a doormat and know who you are as a woman and respect yourself.

The shyt I hear about online or from some females baffles me. I have full autonomy over my life and body.
Da fukk you mean you afraid of a dude ghosting you?

You do realize that a man who truly cares about you will have no problems spending time with you and you don't have to even hint at sex.

Splitting bills?! Dudes fukking you and leaving?!
I have laughed at dudes who tried these lil mind games in the past and then they become emotional target practice for trying me like a bytch.
Once a dude attempts to be a user, it's game on. I get a thrill from humbling them. Why? Because I was bouncing thru life happy as fukk and you tried to take advantage of me. Now I'm taking ur money, eviserating ur manhood, stringing u along just enough to think you getting p*ssy, being oh so sweet as I gain enough information on you to hit you with every one of ur weaknesses you didn't even realize was obvious to others. And I may or may not fukk ur barber and have him with the shaky T-Rex wrists when he fukkin up ur hairline.

And if you mad about it, you make sure you take them bytch ass emotions and keep ur hands to urself b/c a lot of dudes wanna get violent when they can't treat you like shyt. But I keep a loaded 12 gauge at the crib, a 9 mm and a knife sharp enough to dust split ends. You will come out better trying these dumb ass tricks on fatherless joints with low self-esteem b/c most ain't having it.


...unless we in love...and then all that bullshyt I wrote prior to this sentence is obsolete.
:mjlol:
@CorporateTrapper is right LMAO!!!
:duck:
 
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