Alright coli brehs gotta new question about a guy

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I'm conversing with a guy from okcupid.
By y'all's standards I think he would be considered a simp.
Anyway we've gone out a few times, and he's always paid. So the last time I mentioned us hanging out again he invited me over, instead of actually going out, because he said funds are tight right now (has a kid and is in college).
I am going to go to his house.
The reason I make this thread, is, I'm wondering if he's going to expect me to have sex with him. I'll be going to his house after I get off, so let's say around 9pm. And I'll be wearing wearing what I'll wear to work

Why would you go to his house if you're not interested in f*cking? :mindblown:
 

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Because I know if I ask him he's going to say no. I honestly don't know how many men would actually say yes to that. I think men think if they say yes, they're going to ruin their chances of getting some.
why not be upfront with him and tell him what ur intentions are.
 

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@Luciphen

:aicmon: I'm talking about you too though. You are on a predominantly male website trying to get Intel on how to take advantage of another man. He is 34 with a child. Why are you entertaining him in the first place letting him take you out on dates and such. He is fully grown man. You are trying to get a cosign to not give him the box. You are low quality and need to do better. I'm letting you know so its your choice on whether you want to improve or not.
because she knows we will entertain her ducktales. I wouldnt ask u nikkas for advice on men. yall nikkas dont care about her best interest.
 

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because she knows we will entertain her ducktales. I wouldnt ask u nikkas for advice on men. yall nikkas dont care about her best interest.

I understand where you are coming from but You are hopping out of context that is whole different subject
 

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@Luciphen

:aicmon: I'm talking about you too though. You are on a predominantly male website trying to get Intel on how to take advantage of another man. He is 34 with a child. Why are you entertaining him in the first place letting him take you out on dates and such. He is fully grown man. You are trying to get a cosign to not give him the box. You are low quality and need to do better. I'm letting you know so its your choice on whether you want to improve or not.
How am I taking advantage of him?
I wasn't asking whether or not I should give up the box, I'm not going to ask strangers what I should do with my body. I was asking if that's what he expected.

:patrice: Just out of curiosity , have Y'all talked about what y'all like sexually?
no. Sex isn't something that's come up in our conversations. Ever. That's why I wanted to know if he was expecting sex.
Lol I failed to see a question anywhere in the OP
i know. Lol
Why are you messing with single fathers .

And yes if a guy invites you over he expects sex, ever heard of the 3 date rule. SIMPs want puzzy to
Point me in the direction of childless men!! I'm looking. #noshade but most childless men that I come across are white men. #nothanks

Never heard of the three date rule.
 

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How am I taking advantage of him?
Point me in the direction of childless men!! I'm looking. #noshade but most childless men that I come across are white men. #nothanks

Never heard of the three date rule.

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Anyway we've gone out a few times, and he's always paid. So the last time I mentioned us hanging out again he invited me over, instead of actually going out, because he said funds are tight right now (has a kid and is in college).

:heh: i do this shyt all the time. that nikka is not low on funds...he's just tired of spending money on your ass and getting nothing in return. you're gonna have to bust that p*ssy open before he bust that wallet open again.





and wtf stop giving us the run around...do you WANT to have sex with him when you go over there, or nah? you keep asking us what he expects...what do you expect?
 

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I'm conversing with a guy from okcupid.
By y'all's standards I think he would be considered a simp.
Anyway we've gone out a few times, and he's always paid. So the last time I mentioned us hanging out again he invited me over, instead of actually going out, because he said funds are tight right now (has a kid and is in college).
I am going to go to his house.
The reason I make this thread, is, I'm wondering if he's going to expect me to have sex with him. I'll be going to his house after I get off, so let's say around 9pm. And I'll be wearing wearing what I'll wear to work


Since you had no intention of giving up the coochie.. This is the point where you should've offered to pay for the meal, mooch. Of course his expectations now are at the very least some head.
 

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But please, someone point me in the direction of where men are that have no kids. :feedme:
Because I rarely come across them. :damn:

This nikka right here :russ:.

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IRL he wants sex but because as you pointed out he is simpish so if you don't want to he'll probably be fine with you coming over and denying him once or twice. You don't have to put out if you don't want to but that raises the question do you not like him? There is nothing wrong with sex.
 

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Since you had no intention of giving up the coochie.. This is the point where you should've offered to pay for the meal, mooch. Of course his expectations now are at the very least some head.

This is some real shyt. If a bytch is completely disinterested in having sex with a man she is on a date with, then she should insist on paying for what she ate/drank. I dont see how this isnt considered a common courtesy. It also pretty much appears to be a win/win for everybody involved. The guy doesnt waste his money, and the girl sends a clear message that their relationship is simply platonic.
 
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