Always wanting new p*ssy is the cruelest joke

Braman

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Reading these replies reminds me why I genuinely believe Phonte is one of the 10 best rappers ever to live

Wifey wants a scholar and a traveler
Hunter and a gatherer, and after I capture her
Now I gotta put MY spear up?

Something in the way society rears us
Commitment wears us, out it tears us, apart
And makes us feel we don't need to
And that turns into "I don't need you"
People want what grandma and granddaddy had
But they ain't have options, nikka, we do

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Yup

The dating
The flaking
The wasted money
The ignored texts
The fickleness
The holding the p*ssy hostage until you fukk the first time
In my 20s I used to love juggling multiple situations.

In my 30s I’m like hell no. I need peace.

I still get those itches - especially knowing I have easy access to a pool of top talent. Just gotta focus on exercising self-control :francis:
 

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Absolutely, and utterly incorrect.

You telling on yourself. :ufdup:

That tingle in your stomach you get when you about to pipe a new broad is UNDEFEATED.

dikk be harder than trying to wake up from sleep paralysis.
This may sound backwards, but I've fukked alot of women. been with 30+ atleast before ever getting into a relationship ever.

But im currently in my *first* longer relationship deal...and man...this shyt is hardddd to not think about other women. It even sometimes pops up in my head when I'm fukkin'...I even been DREAMIN about fukking other bishes. Something has got to be wrong.

because my friend that stays in relationships always acted like relationships were goated, and that fukking different girls gets tiresome (he hasn't fukked as many as me, none as fine as I have, and his chick isn't attractive.) But I feel lied to lmao Like I really like my girl, and don't want it to end. But it also feels...like I'm trapped sometimes. Like if this goes the distance, it's weird to think that I won't fukk another girl in my life unless I cheat or have some open relationship.
 

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This may sound backwards, but I've fukked alot of women. been with 30+ atleast before ever getting into a relationship ever.

But im currently in my *first* longer relationship deal...and man...this shyt is hardddd to not think about other women. It even sometimes pops up in my head when I'm fukkin'...I even been DREAMIN about fukking other bishes. Something has got to be wrong.

because my friend that stays in relationships always acted like relationships were goated, and that fukking different girls gets tiresome (he hasn't fukked as many as me, none as fine as I have, and his chick isn't attractive.) But I feel lied to lmao Like I really like my girl, and don't want it to end. But it also feels...like I'm trapped sometimes. Like if this goes the distance, it's weird to think that I won't fukk another girl in my life unless I cheat or have some open relationship.
Are you gonna ask your girlfriend if she would be open to an open relationship?
 

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Are you gonna ask your girlfriend if she would be open to an open relationship?
she wouldn't be lol and hell even I don't see the point in that to a degree. I'm not personally into a chick that's supposedly "Mine" but fukking other dudes, i'd get turned off. Rather just do my own thing at that point lol

However there was a time when she brought her friend over and I swear her friend was down for somethin' 3 ways. But my girl lowkey made sure that didn't happen smh lol

deep down, I worry that relationships aren't for me, and that they are for dudes of...lower caliber or ignorant to their power, or tired. Or i worry that i'd have to be with a the baddest chick ever in order to be satisfied. idk man
 

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But im currently in my *first* longer relationship deal...and man...this shyt is hardddd to not think about other women. It even sometimes pops up in my head when I'm fukkin'...I even been DREAMIN about fukking other bishes. Something has got to be wrong.

because my friend that stays in relationships always acted like relationships were goated, and that fukking different girls gets tiresome (he hasn't fukked as many as me, none as fine as I have, and his chick isn't attractive.) But I feel lied to lmao Like I really like my girl, and don't want it to end. But it also feels...like I'm trapped sometimes.
Now we’re talking

TLDR: it’s not easy being committed when you got options. The grass always looks greener on the other side.


Sometimes I close my eyes and think of other women when I need a spark if she was annoying before we got in bed. Then afterwards the guilt pops up why do I still think like this? I’m supposed to be settling down and be mature and intentional

I always looked down on cheaters but always had short situationships

Now that I’m in a more official relationship, it feels like I’m stuck in it. Since she met the fam and her fam knows me and her friends met me, it’s like I can’t break up. She moved her extra stuff in my place already. I’m thinking how did we get here so fast? It’s only been a few months and if I don’t do something, time will fly by and people will ask when are y’all gonna tie the knot already?

like others said I try to remind myself of what dating is like nowadays. The interview questions. The expectations of having to Wine and dine with no certainty. The texts that sometimes go nowhere. The mental state of the prettiest women. The need to go out and do something all the time. The amount of money that just evaporates because we gotta try new things.

Then there’s the judging and societal pressure. The fam thinks you’re just a playboy who’s picky. The way people look when u say you’re single especially christians. Your friends joke about being the eternal bachelor or going overseas to get yours

I want to be settled down. I want to be committed. It’s obviously so much easier to focus on one woman and pour yourself into her. But every time I wonder if this is the one because my mind wanders a lot and evolving is what got me to where I’m at today


Someone told men a lie one day and we all fell for it


Damn this turned into a therapy session lol
 

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Now we’re talking

TLDR: it’s not easy being committed when you got options. The grass always looks greener on the other side.


Sometimes I close my eyes and think of other women when I need a spark if she was annoying before we got in bed. Then afterwards the guilt pops up why do I still think like this? I’m supposed to be settling down and be mature and intentional

I always looked down on cheaters but always had short situationships

Now that I’m in a more official relationship, it feels like I’m stuck in it. Since she met the fam and her fam knows me and her friends met me, it’s like I can’t break up. She moved her extra stuff in my place already. I’m thinking how did we get here so fast? It’s only been a few months and if I don’t do something, time will fly by and people will ask when are y’all gonna tie the knot already?

like others said I try to remind myself of what dating is like nowadays. The interview questions. The expectations of having to Wine and dine with no certainty. The texts that sometimes go nowhere. The mental state of the prettiest women. The need to go out and do something all the time. The amount of money that just evaporates because we gotta try new things.

Then there’s the judging and societal pressure. The fam thinks you’re just a playboy who’s picky. The way people look when u say you’re single especially christians. Your friends joke about being the eternal bachelor or going overseas to get yours

I want to be settled down. I want to be committed. It’s obviously so much easier to focus on one woman and pour yourself into her. But every time I wonder if this is the one because my mind wanders a lot and evolving is what got me to where I’m at today


Someone told men a lie one day and we all fell for it


Damn this turned into a therapy session lol


Damn this is a real comment
 

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It's messed up but true

I'm trying so hard to be faithful right now

Each time my girl takes shots or get on my nerves, I literally have to fight the urge to not call another woman

Like it's NOTHING for me to pick right back up with someone finer. I think she knows that and knows when to chill.

I just shake it off and tell myself to be the "bigger" man

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Why not just get with the chick you really want?
 
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