Am I crazy or are bars/clubs now the WORST spots to pick up women?

[Da_Eggman]

Club wise only a couple times. And chalk those experiences up to being solo. Club is kinda hard logistics wise because you got your boys.

Bar is higher, because it's usually in a more local area and easier to go dolo, break apart from your peeps.

Problem is, Ive seen too many dudes get no play period when going out. Like zero attention from women.

But yeah a lot of times, I just set something up for later in the week.

The club / bar scene is by far the easiest way to pick up women.

Going for a ONS in the me too area is a bit reckless i feel it’s better to vet a girl and set up somthing later regardless

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

If you looking for ONS and u cant pull drunk chicks at the club......



If you looking for a whole gf in thr club


Iunno OP, back in my single days, clubs were like fishing in an aquarium. Can't fail

Hate to sound like a koon....but it's a lot harder to pick up girls at urban club events etc...cause its geared towards tables and booth.... and nikkas who there 2 spend a rack..snapchats plus rappers hosting clubs ruined it for the average 9-5 coli dude

Best place to pick up are clubs that dont focus on tables
Or ones with mixed crowd

 

[WesCrook]

Birthday invite @ someone's house.

This venue will draw many types of women, whether it's the party type

or

the ones who don't go out much "I'm just here to hang with my cousin".

These are the ones to aim for...and are attainable

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Going for a ONS in the me too area is a bit reckless i feel it’s better to vet a girl and set up somthing later regardless

70 percent of one night stands occure due to great logistics

If your place is accross the club or bar, you will close most of the time

Logistics is king

 

[Serious]

70 percent of one night stands occure due to great logistics

If your place is accross the club or bar, you will close most of the time

Logistics is king

@Astroslik this is exactly why we plan date with a couple mile radius of the crib.


It's so much easier to close when you're 2 minutes away

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

@Astroslik this is exactly why we plan date with a couple mile radius of the crib.


It's so much easier to close when you're 2 minutes away

Lol honestly your not pulling If you live 25min away...

Logistics logistics...that's like 80 percent of night game

Club to getting pizza to walking to your building

Lol its gotta be effortless...let's go get food
Comfort her


Then let' me show you my fish tank at my apartment which is next door

 

[Mass]

No....ur not crazy OP.

Granted I have had success at clubs...to compare the amount of time and money wasted there to the actual times I've gotten some p*ssy from it is lopsided and pitiful....

Bars are decent cuz there's less stunting, more laidback vibe, less loud ass music etc but it depends on the bar. Your best bet is everyday game (grocery store, mall, etc). Dating apps are good if u found a lane & social media id u have a lot of followers/clout.

I realized years ago most girls at clubs have men at home, and are only there for attention from men like you (thinking there gonna get laid). It's a waste of time & I only really go for special events or I'm invited.

All truth.


Its a total waste of time.

And to nikkas talking about pulling drunk chicks ... good luck with your metoo movement feminist era shyt. I specifically AVOID them if they are too drunk. Tipsy and happy is fine but drunk yea fukk that

 

[Legal]

Clubs BEEN trash for that since forever.

Used to just be that it was too loud for you to actually talk to women.......what I look like trying to say some smooth shyt, but yell it like I'm trying to tell someone I just threw a grenade?

But now, half the people there are just there to be seen, and take pictures/video for their IG/Snap. If you're trying to pull from the club, you lost before you even started playing.

 

[Drip Bayless]

Women go to clubs to be seen

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Forgive these oldheads.

@360Waves half those girls got men at home. They are there for attention.

At best u'll get a # and strung along...or maybe a week or two later u smash once she situates her boyfriend/man....

True story.

I am one myself.
nikkas need not be hopping on drunk bytches in the clout chase era...

 

[daboywonder2002]

Makes me miss the good old college on campus party. Didn't need alcohol either. Of course most people just drink before the party anyway. Just straight sweaty dancing, taking her back to your dorm smashing.

 

[Weaver31]

Internet dating killed the club.

Back in the days chicks had to go to the club to get smutted out. I know for a fact that some of the joints I was taking down in the late 90's/early 2000's wouldn't step foot in a club if they had Tinder back then.

If you have clout/status, you can still bag some serious joints out there, tho.

That's true...both men and women nowadays can easily pull and eat online w/o leaving the comfort of their home. And that's good if u one who drinks, smokes and do shyt that is risky when in have to drive.

 

[Mowgli]

I don’t pull up on sloppy drunk girls though.

If she's at a bar shes loose even if she had one drink.

Bars are where sleezy women go and sleezy women want pieces of shyt.

How many great relationships started with

We met at a bar.......

 

[Chip Skylark]

Clubs yes bars are the perfect spot

 

[Mowgli]

. Don't get nobody put on the Summer Slam screen outchea.

How many drinks have you had tonight


A question asked by no drunk man to a drunk woman


Let's pretend for digital footprints sake