Am I crazy or are bars/clubs now the WORST spots to pick up women?

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Internet dating killed the club.

Back in the days chicks had to go to the club to get smutted out. I know for a fact that some of the joints I was taking down in the late 90's/early 2000's wouldn't step foot in a club if they had Tinder back then.

If you have clout/status, you can still bag some serious joints out there, tho.

Cosign x100

All the sluts who are down for it are getting it already so don’t need to go clubbing. That just leaves the attention seekers :yeshrug:


Or we getting old :mjcry::mjcry:
 

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my experience ive def had more experience pulling women in bars than clubs

in undergrad my senior year dorm was located next to the local bar..it was almost too fukking easy..whether i went in the bar purposely or i happened to come back to my dorm from elsewhere before the bar let out..the chicks use to walk by..shyt all i had to do is stand outside and the chicks were choosing..esp if they werent ready to go back to their dorms
 

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How does approaching at the store work exactly ?

I always feel odd thinking about it, plus every fukkin time the girls boyfriend comes around the corner lol. It's like they sense someone is going to approach her.
I just say something dumb about what’s in they cart or suggest they buy something I like then boom you in there
 

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Those be the chicks who don't really
How does approaching at the store work exactly ?

I always feel odd thinking about it, plus every fukkin time the girls boyfriend comes around the corner lol. It's like they sense someone is going to approach her.

I mean I usually approach when a chick is giving off choosing signals..

That :wub: type look or they just happen to hover around you for awhile.
 
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OP is right. What is even worse is that if a chick is really feeling you and wants to go home with you, her friends will cockblock and make sure it doesn't happen.

But the club is a terrible place to meet women. You can't even hear yourself think let alone hear what the hell anyone is saying. The club is all lights, camera, action. It's not real. And I remember from my clubbing days, the best looking women in the house were usually the bartenders anyway and they were used to getting hit on constantly and curving nikkas every five seconds. :why:

I'd be cautious if a chick actually wants to leave the club with you. That's how hella nikkas get set up to be robbed or killed. Especially if you look like you drunk, got money and ain't streetsmart. It happens in every big city where outta towners go to try to pick up hoes at the club. :snoop:

Let's not even get started with beer goggles. That bytch you think is a dime is prolly really a 4 at best, but it's dark in the bar/club and you hella drunk, so all you see is big tiddies and what looks like a fat ass. I've met some tore up looking women who I thought were dimes in the bar when I was drunk.

Trying to leave the club/bar with a rando is some young boy fuccboi shyt. :what:It could go south in so many ways. That bad bytch at the club could be burning like California wildfires or even have the package or have a crazy boyfriend/baby daddy who will murk you. People don't leave the club with randos for a reason. Unless you Trey Songz or Chris Brown, it ain't happening for regular non celebrity nikkas. But why would you want to throw your dikk and life on the roulette table anyway? I'm glad I'm older and never got caught up.
 

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I look around at the end of the night, and see most guys going home empty handed, even the top tier ones.

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Here some free game for you young nikkas. You more likely to get some workable digits from a bad bytch at a low key hookah bar where they don't serve alcohol or most people aren't drinking. :youngsabo: Alcohol + loud music + ignorance/obnoxiousness+ danger + stunting for social media and strangers is what ruins the bar/club in terms of picking up women. Go to a lowkey hookah spot that doesn't blare its music but attracts young people. There are hella hookah spots here in MD in the DC area. Go with your homies because women bring their girlfriends too. You can tell which hookah spots have a social atmosphere vs. a club atmosphere. Because hookah places with a social atmosphere have shyt like playing cards, multiplayer videogames and boardgames available and the overall atmosphere is brighter and not dark and filled with strobe lights. so you can grab a deck of cards and ask a chick and her homegirls to play Uno with you and your homies. Works every time. :mjgrin:And women at these spots are actually open to being approached and don't have their rape shield up and generally aren't there to be seen on some thot shyt and are on some cool laid back shyt. If you find the right hookah spot in your area and go back on a regular basis, I guarantee you will be bagging some bad bytches in due time.The only thing you need is some good homies as wingmen and some real conversation skills and an actual personality because you can actually carry a conversation at these spots.
 
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Here some free game for you young nikkas. You more likely to get some workable digits from a bad bytch at a low key hookah bar where they don't serve alcohol or most people aren't drinking. :youngsabo: Alcohol + loud music + ignorance/obnoxiousness+ danger + stunting for social media and strangers is what ruins the bar/club in terms of picking up women. Go to a lowkey hookah spot that doesn't blare its music but attracts young people. There are hella hookah spots here in MD in the DC area. Go with your homies because women bring their girlfriends too. You can tell which hookah spots have a social atmosphere vs. a club atmosphere. Because hookah places with a social atmosphere have shyt like playing cards, multiplayer videogames and boardgames available and the overall atmosphere is brighter and not dark and filled with strobe lights. so you can grab a deck of cards and ask a chick and her homegirls to play Uno with you and your homies. Works every time. :mjgrin:And women at these spots are actually open to being approached and don't have their rape shield up and generally aren't there to be seen on some thot shyt and are on some cool laid back shyt. If you find the right hookah spot in your area and go back on a regular basis, I guarantee you will be bagging some bad bytches in due time.The only thing you need is some good homies as wingmen and some real conversation skills and an actual personality because you can actually carry a conversation at these spots.
i say dudes just need to focus on gettin their paper right and all this jumpin through hoops trynna find this spot and that spot won't matter because females will be choosin up on you. I know from personal experience as well as listenin to game from more intelligent males.
i find it really sad how men put all this energy into trynna bag this chick and that chick but put like 10% of that energy into gettin their shyt together.
 
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i say dudes just need to focus on gettin their paper right and all this jumpin through hoops trynna find this spot and that spot won't matter because females will be choosin up on you. I know from personal experience as well as listenin to game from more intelligent males.
i find it really sad how men put all this energy into trynna bag this chick and that chick but put like 10% of that energy into gettin their shyt together.


You missed the point entirely. The bar/club is shallow and all about money and status. But nikkas chase the club scene because they talk about the club like it's some magical place in music. But if you ain't a rapper or an NFL player, you ain't getting "chose" at the club. nikkas is p*ssy if you can't holler at a woman any way, expecting hoes to choose you at the club like you Chris Brown. Just because you got a job and a whip don't mean women are going to be beating down your door with a battering ram. You got to meet them somewhere. But most nikkas nowadays just do that using dating apps and don't even holler in real life anymore any way.

And what if you in college and don't "have you shyt together"? You supposed to stay celibate all those years? Ain't nothing wrong with working towards goals. You shouldn't have to be established and have a lot of money to get women. This is a new booty concept. My parents were broke as fukk when they met and built a life together. Any woman who ain't checking for you when you ain't balling, but only checking for you once you come up financially ain't worth nothing but a hump and dump. Why do you think hella celebrities stay with their day one women? Kendrick still with his girl from high school. TI stayed with Tiny ugly ass for so long because she was with him before the money and the fame.
 

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The club scene really is one big ego boost for both sides, as long as you accept that and are genuinely there for a good time it ain’t too bad. Was at one in London last night and though I got numbers from girls that talked to me first I felt like they were flirting for validation rather than genuine interest.
 
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Clubs are trash af!!

I only go because I love to get fly, get drunk, and it's easier to meet many women.

All of them play games and all of them have dudes.

I've learned they are only good for ons. But I live very far from the clubs, so I would have to go to their place. I haven't tried that yet.

I have bytches all over me feenin for me, all that. When I text them, then I get the flakes n shyt. It's like they're a different person, it mind-boggling.

I only smashed a handful from the club.

Plus now at the club it's a lot of cuffin( either nikkas hog bytches all night and won't let go or they with a dude they know), girls standing around, girls being pretend lesbian with one another, and mad nikkas now, too many nikkas.

And I've dealt with this for a couple years and just quit all together.

fukkin them the same night is the best way and I wished I tried sooner.

I still like to club because I like to get out the house and have a drink with a bytch grinding on my dikk.

But it seems online is where it's at now.

Online is the same shyt

:pachaha:
 
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