OP is right. What is even worse is that if a chick is really feeling you and wants to go home with you, her friends will cockblock and make sure it doesn't happen.
But the club is a terrible place to meet women. You can't even hear yourself think let alone hear what the hell anyone is saying. The club is all lights, camera, action. It's not real. And I remember from my clubbing days, the best looking women in the house were usually the bartenders anyway and they were used to getting hit on constantly and curving nikkas every five seconds.
I'd be cautious if a chick actually wants to leave the club with you. That's how hella nikkas get set up to be robbed or killed. Especially if you look like you drunk, got money and ain't streetsmart. It happens in every big city where outta towners go to try to pick up hoes at the club.
Let's not even get started with beer goggles. That bytch you think is a dime is prolly really a 4 at best, but it's dark in the bar/club and you hella drunk, so all you see is big tiddies and what looks like a fat ass. I've met some tore up looking women who I thought were dimes in the bar when I was drunk.
Trying to leave the club/bar with a rando is some young boy fuccboi shyt.

It could go south in so many ways. That bad bytch at the club could be burning like California wildfires or even have the package or have a crazy boyfriend/baby daddy who will murk you. People don't leave the club with randos for a reason. Unless you Trey Songz or Chris Brown, it ain't happening for regular non celebrity nikkas. But why would you want to throw your dikk and life on the roulette table anyway? I'm glad I'm older and never got caught up.