Am I doing the right thing by not dating/smashing/socializing?

[Dreamzeedream]

nikka dont let ANYTHING stop you from living your life. Have goals, but stop being embarrassed that you havent reached them. You'll never be a real man if you care for one second what others think. Once you get your own spot, money right, etc. You will still be a chump (no offense) Destroy this version of yourself and rebuild a new one. Everyone grows at their own pace.

fukk these hoes, you live with moms? So what, just dont tell them, "You have a roomate, and ya'll house not up to snuff." U seen coming to america right? Make some shyt up, take her to a telly, or hopefully got to her spot and splash them guts. My nikka was in a shelter fukking bad bytches, he lost his job, fell off, still dressed nice and had hoes, he got himself together and nobody ever knew he was down.

You define your reality. But lesson A, stop being embarrassed. Nobody is without fault, fukk these people. Boss up.

The best advice I've heard in awhile

 

[Music Fiend]

I was the same at one point, im 23 now. Life has changed for me a lot since back in the day.

1) stop blaming others. Ppl are gonna be attracted to whats poppin, th reaason you have ittle friends has to do with you have little to offer and mot likely hang with ppl who have little to offer.

2) Get in the gym

3) Stop putting yourself in places to meet the thpe of ppl you are comfortable with. You you strive to be uncomfortable as much as possible.

4) Stop beating ya meat fam. Get off the coli. And only be in the house to sleep or have friends over/eat. Once you give up porn and beating your meat you will be surprised how much energy you have left after work or whatever things you do during the day. Eating healthy helps, and getting rest. Getting rid of the coli makes it easier to keep your life focused on you and not a spectator.

5) My friendships started to rise crazily once I stopped caring for one and for two, the most important part is I started meeting others needs. You might have an aquaintance who needs a workout partner, its your job to see that oppurutnity.

6) Be okay with not having incorportated frendships. Its okay to have this group or friends, and that group of friends, etc. etc.