Am I getting played like a simp here?

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"Man"? she might as well be calling you 'bro'. Closest you getting to getting them draws is if she suggests you do her laundry.
 

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Seems like maybe she was.feeling you in the beginning but now nah. Good news, you were attractive to her. Bad news, your personality killed that, but she wouldn't mind being friends with you.

Also if shes the reason yall got in the movie then I don't agree that you providing the ride is her using you. Plus friends with cars low-key always getting used lol. Good friends will buy gas or cover the entertainment expense.
 

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You had a chance but seems like it went over your head

Talking to a woman for an extended period time without making a move is what gets you friendzoned

What Ive experienced is that the man has to make the first move and if she's interested she'll follow up. You should've asked her when she asked "how are you single?" :yeshrug:
 

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-Me and a classmate are cool. We hangout every now and then, it started on some friendship Shii
-She thinks I'm the funniest dude alive. We have similar personalities. She's always commenting on my appearance and even asked why I was single when we first started kickin it
-she even had me help her choose some new bras and panties from Victoria's Secret, asked me which ones I think would look best on her

Mind you:
-I noticed she recently made it a point to throw "man" in our convos. Like "all right see you at 8, man":beli:
-she's been to my apartment once (just left 20 min ago and nothing happened. I made move, but nothing:leostare:
-I'm starting to think she might be using me..she got tickets to some movie tonight but I drove. She wants us to go to church tomorrow but I'm driving:patrice:

I wouldn't mind fcking with this girl but I don't know what the hell is going on, if we're just friends or if she's tryna get with me.

And before ppl question my game, I just had an Indian engineer come by the apartment and we hooked up. So I'm not a rookie, I handles my business:dame:i just need a second opinion on this situation:mjcry:


straight beta :mjcry: hate to see it happen to you OP

nikkas gone learn today

I would NEVER EVER shop with a woman at Victoria Secrets for bras and panties unless we are dating/engaged/married. If it ain't one of those 3, then you friend zoned.
 

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She liked you at first. Probably thought you were scared or not interested when you didn't make a move after she gave you the signs.

You made your move, how did nothing happen? How did she reject you and what did she say/do? I think at this point you should charge it to the game. If she ask you why you don't want to hang out as much you tell her cause you're interested in her in another way and she made it clear she didn't want the same thing which is cool. If she asks you why you didn't make a move earlier just say the truth. When she says she only wants to be friends, shut it down but in a nice way/no resentment. The best game is no game. Just keep it real with her.

She can only pick out of the options she has. If you don't want her to treat you like a friend then only give her the option of being lovers.
 

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If you have to ask, then you already know the deal. Sounds like she's playing games to me. Establish boundaries by treating her like one of your homeboys until you have a convo about what she's trying to do. You wouldn't help your homeboy pick out underwear so tell her to :camby:
 

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Damn op know he fukked up posting this here he didnt even come back :russ:
 

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How did you meet and hook up with the Indian engineer? If she's cute why not keep hooking up with her?
 
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