Am I simply not aggressive enough with women?

Reno89

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Or she has to be reciprocate to a degree?
She always answer my snapchats. As a man I have to do all the shyt right?
I don't want to make this another of my threads. So I'll keep it short.

I've tried implying to take her out but she busy with essays. She always posts occasional selfie with some goofy wanting a man caption.

I did once high snapchat one of those posts and implied we should go out. She said it was just a rhetorical post.
So I decided to be fall back.
Still occasionally message her.

Been a minute.

Tonight at work before her shift ended she ran her finger down my back before taking some product back to the shelf for me that I asked.


I snapchatted her a bit tonight.
I'll do it again tmrw night and be more direct. I'll let y'all know how it goes.
She cute short darkskin chick who's nerdy with big boobs.

Breh, she is using you for attention. She knows exactly what she needs to do in order to string you along. She talks to you when she's bored.

Campaigning for a man on social media, but when you ask her out, she tells you that she's busy with essays?:mjlol:

That's what separates an attention whore from somebody that actually likes you: action. If you ain't smashing, everything should go in one ear and out the other. Cut off all communication, look for other options, and get your self-respect back breh.
 
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Or she has to be reciprocate to a degree?
She always answer my snapchats. As a man I have to do all the shyt right?
I don't want to make this another of my threads. So I'll keep it short.

I've tried implying to take her out but she busy with essays. She always posts occasional selfie with some goofy wanting a man caption.

I did once high snapchat one of those posts and implied we should go out. She said it was just a rhetorical post.
So I decided to be fall back.
Still occasionally message her.

Been a minute.

Tonight at work before her shift ended she ran her finger down my back before taking some product back to the shelf for me that I asked.


I snapchatted her a bit tonight.
I'll do it again tmrw night and be more direct. I'll let y'all know how it goes.
She cute short darkskin chick who's nerdy with big boobs.

breh let me drop some advice here :gucci:....take it or leave it...up to you:manny:

yall got to stop putting so much energy into women :francis:....put it into yourself :martin:

you want women? become interesting :yeshrug:

succeed in your career.....travel....lift weights....make the nba...get rich......whatever your particular thing is get good at it

and you'll meet women

simple
 

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It’s not working for him, his desires are too deep he can’t even focus on anything else.

He said he wanted to do these things for a while and didn’t get any closer to them.

Not his fault entirely.

Everyone has shyt they know they need to work on and they don’t. It happens.

He said that his only way is with music, so I guess he’ll focus on that now.

I still think he should go out with friends or have some type of stuff with girls going on.

I used to fukk and try to fukk a lot of hoes at my jobs, managers too.

That was a few years ago tho, but dude should practice with these girls at work and at least ask them out, even customers, maybe he can just flirt, he gotta do something in the meantime.

Because if not, he’ll keep worrying about women.







breh let me drop some advice here :gucci:....take it or leave it...up to you:manny:

yall got to stop putting so much energy into women :francis:....put it into yourself :martin:

you want women? become interesting :yeshrug:

succeed in your career.....travel....lift weights....make the nba...get rich......whatever your particular thing is get good at it

and you'll meet women

simple
 
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Lol I have no way to be around the ones in my age group. That's the problem. Maybe I should just give my all into music and get a record deal. Hopefully be a top artist. This shyt is getting old.

How do you feel about yourself? Serious question
 

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It’s not working for him, his desires are too deep he can’t even focus on anything else.

He said he wanted to do these things for a while and didn’t get any closer to them.

Not his fault entirely.

Everyone has shyt they know they need to work on and they don’t. It happens.

He said that his only way is with music, so I guess he’ll focus on that now.

I still think he should go out with friends or have some type of stuff with girls going on.

I used to fukk and try to fukk a lot of hoes at my jobs, managers too.

That was a few years ago tho, but dude should practice with these girls at work and at least ask them out, even customers, maybe he can just flirt, he gotta do something in the meantime.

Because if not, he’ll keep worrying about women.
I need discipline and I am using work as practice. It'd be cool to succeed tho lol
 

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breh let me drop some advice here :gucci:....take it or leave it...up to you:manny:

yall got to stop putting so much energy into women :francis:....put it into yourself :martin:

you want women? become interesting :yeshrug:

succeed in your career.....travel....lift weights....make the nba...get rich......whatever your particular thing is get good at it

and you'll meet women

simple
Yeah that's good
 

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Dating/relationships/sex are fluid constructs, like emotion. Be Ffuid and adaptive, not stagnant/bitter/rigid. There's some Asian philosophy quote I like about reeds in the wind, the one that can bend will survive and prosper, the rigid ones always break and destroy themselves.

“The green reed which bends in the wind is stronger than the mighty oak which breaks in a storm.”- Confucious
 

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I’m telling u bro, you need to get with bytches on the side at least. You gonna go nuts.

Work also sucks too, but you can still get some practice in. Don’t have any feelings for none of them.

Or try to bag chicks at fast food spots.




I need discipline and I am using work as practice. It'd be cool to succeed tho lol
 

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Ignore her for a full two weeks. She will ask why you ghosted her then hit her with hey, I’m trying to see you and have us chilling but you playing so imma let you do you. Holla at me when you serious:sas2:

That’ll make her think and re evaluate you. Hopefully you get your turn in her twat but if not don’t put no more energy into this broad man. She a tease obviously
 

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Dating/relationships/sex are fluid constructs, like emotion. Be Ffuid and adaptive, not stagnant/bitter/rigid. There's some Asian philosophy quote I like about reeds in the wind, the one that can bend will survive and prosper, the rigid ones always break and destroy themselves.

“The green reed which bends in the wind is stronger than the mighty oak which breaks in a storm.”- Confucious


But a claw hammer is hard as fukk and was made to smash stuff. Like a mans penis was made to smash p*ssy:ufdup:
 

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Brehs can't accept not all men are handsome or above average. I'm a plain dwayne :yeshrug:

Imma one secret to always grab a woman’s attention no matter how you look and that is to deliberately smells good and fresh. That’s it. Period. bytches love a good clean smelling man. I can be in gym clothes but I put on my work scent and them hoes be like :feedme:


Edit. Ok, one more. Make her laugh. Seriously. I’m so random with my girl on funny shyt she always laughing at me and we have a good time wherever we at. Next thing you know I’m sliding the dikk up in her.
 
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Or she has to be reciprocate to a degree?
She always answer my snapchats. As a man I have to do all the shyt right?
I don't want to make this another of my threads. So I'll keep it short.

I've tried implying to take her out but she busy with essays. She always posts occasional selfie with some goofy wanting a man caption.

I did once high snapchat one of those posts and implied we should go out. She said it was just a rhetorical post.
So I decided to be fall back.
Still occasionally message her.

Been a minute.

Tonight at work before her shift ended she ran her finger down my back before taking some product back to the shelf for me that I asked.


I snapchatted her a bit tonight.
I'll do it again tmrw night and be more direct. I'll let y'all know how it goes.
She cute short darkskin chick who's nerdy with big boobs.

Don't imply shyt STATE your intent from the get-go, now don't be a fukkin goofy about
 
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