That's a lot of writing to get the idea of potentially challenging relationships.
Single mother or not, if she is worth it...she is worth it

. All women are not alike...very similiar culturally/demographically/geographically speaking, but not the same. It's odd, because I know a few that are great women...great humans actually. A woman that puts all of her effort into caring for her children is sexy to me too, I won't be trying to compete with that anyway

. They made choices and the outcome was children/child, but despite this they are very appealing in all the ways (sexually, intellectually, etc). If I am all that I think I am...then my entering into a relationship with her and her child will be rewarding rather than a punishment. It should not be disqualifier tho. It takes a special kind of dude that really can make that work tho so.
