And this is the problem right here. These simps don’t stop.

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what exactly do you think courting in the past entailed? dudes were out-gifting each other trying to get the attention of a girl.

writing letters back and forth for months and it might not come to nothin.:mjlol:
Nah…men asked women out and courted their attention through dates and conversation.

Men were not giving ladies money to go buy random shyt without some type of return on their investment.

This is simp kneegrow shyt and this woman likely still isn’t going to give him any play. Women don’t want anything that comes to easily and freely. It seems like you don’t value yourself and value her too much when you do shyt like this.

Usually the kneegrow who isn’t sweating her gets the play.
 

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Do women really ask men to buy specific things? How is that gift-giving? “Buy me this purse. Buy me these earrings.” How does he get to know whether he knows/understands you without just letting him make the choice?

I’ve never asked my husband to purchase anything specific, ever. He just pays attention and is usually right on point. The best is when he buys me something I didn’t even realize I needed. That is A1. 💕

I haven’t dated in a loooong time so I am truly dumbfounded. Ladies, y’all ask men to buy you specific things? Is that a test or something?
It’s the typical mannerisms of a greedy harlot who doesn’t have the discipline for delayed gratification, they tend to burn out hard later in life when nobody wants to get them shyt, not even proper life support.
 

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IF her story is true, the first dude is a fukk-boy too for playing games like a child.

Told her he got her those Uggs but was lying about it. Wtf was the point of being emotionally manipulative? Just be honest with her but you had to go be a dumb nikka about things.

The 2nd guy just saw a lane created and exploited it. I may not agree with his simping methods but you can't hate on a player for jumping a route and causing a turnover :manny:
 

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what exactly do you think courting in the past entailed? dudes were out-gifting each other trying to get the attention of a girl.

writing letters back and forth for months and it might not come to nothin
.:mjlol:

it's way easier to find out where you stand today.
These are 2 vastly different things.

It has never been standard practice to ‘out-gift’ other men. Stop taking cues from rappers who 1) have a ton of money, 2) aren’t used to getting women so they buy them, 3) court vapid ig thots
 

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You don't have this problem when it comes to men. The biggest thing they'll ask for is a PS5. Get them that and you're guaranteed to get some play.
 

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These fools be desperate to have a lady like them without never getting any ass and after 3 months, 6 months a year of giving gifts and getting they hopes high, the nikka see he loss hundreds or thousands of dollars and then get mad at the woman for not returning some sex and he becomes psycho calling her all kind of names..

These losers stay embarrassing themselves
 
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