I respect you getting straight to the matter at hand! Lol
Here’s the deal: If a man isn’t supposed to pay majority of the bills alone, a woman isn’t supposed to do majority of the child-rearing and housework alone.
There’s been a silent outcry of women who were frustrated with coming home from work at the same time as their hubby/sig. other, yet doing most of the cooking, cleaning, etc. THAT is the shyt no one wants to deal with.
If “women’s work” is everything inside the house -which is a daily thing, man’s work is handling the finances.
Also- to keep it

, I’m not saying your lady shouldn’t respect you if you aren’t the breadwinner, but there may be some men who think they are regarded the same way as a man who can fully provide.
If you afford me the ability to stay home, take care of the house and kids without the stress of being in the working world- hell yea I’m going to be a Stepford wife. I’ll have the time! But I don’t need that pressure on my shoulders as someone working the same 40-50 hours a week as my hubby.
If we’re both working, we’re both cooking and cleaning
*Now, I’m still old school in certain respects so, whatever dynamic exists I’m the only one bathing and clothing the children.

Those young years are on me.