It's not hard to refute these dudes, they're objectively stupid losers. All of them are single, most of them aren't having success with women, and a lot of them are not successful. For every Andrew Tate who has money, there are probably 200 broke dudes trying this hustle on Youtube and Tiktok.
A lot of very-online men are struggling with this, but many men in real life figured it out. If both the man and woman are economically viable/successful, what do you bring to the table? Most people marry within the same socio-economic bracket, meaning successful people marry successful people and working class people marry working class people. So if your income is merely a basic, base line requirement - meaning the average person is simply looking for someone in the same economic ballpark of self independence - that means other things determine your success. Are you attractive (weight, height, face, etc)? Do we have compatible personalities? Are you socially mature? This is where shyt falls apart for a lot of dudes who are simply unattractive, boring or socially retarded. And those are the main dudes who end up in the manosphere crying about women.