Another old man haircut for bad behavior

[Wildin]

 

[okra]

humiliating your children wont improve anything. it just ruins their self esteem

 

[Remote]

Pops probably couldn't pass his kid's class either.

How about taking time to review his homework every night instead of humiliating him like the lazy a$$hole parent that you are?

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Stupid ass "parents"
It's a reason why the kid is getting bad grades, it's because the parents are complete dumb asses

 

[DrX]

these "parents" r full of shyt, they just attention, they don't care about their cares well being....i hate these gen x nikkas....these mothafukkas never wanna grew the hell up....more 20 somethings are more mature

 

[MrFettuccinnePockets]

Bet you that kid think twice about acting up in class.

 

[Freedman]

Ay Okay I could see this being a proper crime for the punishment since it's behavior instead of grades

 

[Colicat]

Pops probably couldn't pass his kid's class either.

How about taking time to review his homework every night instead of humiliating him like the lazy a$$hole parent that you are?

In the video the father said it was for being disrespectful to the teacher, not grades...

 

[Wildin]

Pops probably couldn't pass his kid's class either.

How about taking time to review his homework every night instead of humiliating him like the lazy a$$hole parent that you are?

Stupid ass "parents"
It's a reason why the kid is getting bad grades, it's because the parents are complete dumb asses

my bad it wasn't for 'grades' it was for behavior.

humiliating your children wont improve anything. it just ruins their self esteem

I dont disagree with your post, but self esteem comes from within. If the kid were to obtain some humility from being a clown in front of the class and around his peers and become more of participant or just avoid being the source of negative attention then this act of embarrassment could quickly become a thing of the past.

Im not sayin the kid has to do a 180 on his behavior and become like a teachers pet, raising his hand, being the first to turn his homework in but he could easily be the kid who responds appropriately when called on and doesnt seek negative attention. In classes that I liked I was someone who raised my hand, chimed in and participated (voluntarily) whereas in other classes, I just kept to myself, still didnt seek negative attention (act out) and when called on I answered the question and that teaching interaction was over.

I realized young (8th grade) or so that positive attention is better than negative attention by miles. Him acting like a clown and looking like a clown is going to get him the same recognition. People arent laughing with him, they are laughing at him and in either scenario they aren't respecting him. If he starts to act respectful and be respectful- low and behold he will be respected and that is itself will boost his self esteem.

I didn't do it all myself, my pops was constantly in my ear reinforcing some of my thoughts and feelings- telling me, look at the kids who act a fool at school, look at where they are going and what they are doing and ask yourself is that where you want to be or who you want to be? if so then do it, if not then straighten up.

Hell my pops threatened that I was gonna get my haircut (I had cornrows) and take out my earring since I wanted to be cool in 9th grade. I was too cool to ask for more help in one of my classes and almost ended up failing a semester- so I cut my own hair bald and took out my earring and I took his advice which was more of a demand, I came home with that book and busted my ass on it..things got a little better, but I still needed help. I was finally able to communicate to him that I needed more help than I knew how to ask for and he put in a lot of effort with me and sat down with me night after night and shyt turned around.

 

[okra]

I dont disagree with your post, but self esteem comes from within. If the kid were to obtain some humility from being a clown in front of the class and around his peers and become more of participant or just avoid being the source of negative attention then this act of embarrassment could quickly become a thing of the past.

Im not sayin the kid has to do a 180 on his behavior and become like a teachers pet, raising his hand, being the first to turn his homework in but he could easily be the kid who responds appropriately when called on and doesnt seek negative attention. In classes that I liked I was someone who raised my hand, chimed in and participated (voluntarily) whereas in other classes, I just kept to myself, still didnt seek negative attention (act out) and when called on I answered the question and that teaching interaction was over.

I realized young (8th grade) or so that positive attention is better than negative attention by miles. Him acting like a clown and looking like a clown is going to get him the same recognition. People arent laughing with him, they are laughing at him and in either scenario they aren't respecting him. If he starts to act respectful and be respectful- low and behold he will be respected and that is itself will boost his self esteem.

I didn't do it all myself, my pops was constantly in my ear reinforcing some of my thoughts and feelings- telling me, look at the kids who act a fool at school, look at where they are going and what they are doing and ask yourself is that where you want to be or who you want to be? if so then do it, if not then straighten up.

rubbish

 

[Wildin]

rubbish

What's rubbish about it? A lot of kids get embarrassed throughout their schooling, whether its coming to school once with some fukked up ass shoes, or clothes, getting clowned on for havin funky breath, getting punched in the face or beat up, getting called out for failing a class (being a 10 grader in 9th grade english), goin through the lunch line and getting an insufficient funds notice on your lunch card (we had to pay like $1.50 for our lunches ) etc.

There are a lot of factors that create resilience in people, especially at a young age. Like I said he doesnt have to be the star basketbball player or a straight a student on the honor roll to overcome this, Im pretty sure with adequate teaching from his father this stupid haircut is something that wont haunt him to the grave. I dont know if he'll be able to look back and laugh at it, but im optimistic that is isnt going to ruin his life.

 

[Knicksman20]

I can't cosign this by the Pops but I bet this kid will think twice before acting up & disrespecting any of his teachers again

 

[King Poetic]

I remember when I was 7 or 8 and me and my cousins was all at my grandparents house in Louisiana....

So my grandfather took us to his shed pulled out his shotgun and started cleaning it and was telling us about life and what would happen if we start fukking up.. that straightened most of us up after that

 

[Big Blue]

These kids have it so easy. When I was a kid I would have gotten my ass whooped with a belt. Now? You can't even give him a bad haircut? Soft ass generation

 

[Kenny West]

Wish I coulda made it in before all the armchair parenting experts. "Ohh this is gonna scar him for life" ass nikkas