Answer your door and get called N166a by the solar salesman houston breh.

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That is my opinion. It is not excusable, and attempting to give any inkling of it being excusable by saying it is involuntary is not acceptable to me. That man uses that world in his everyday life to describe us, so him saying it to that brother was him using the world he use regularly when not in our presence.

I see an example to show anyone can do it as an attempt to low-key make excuses for it.
You're entitled to your opinion. However if you're making the claim that others are excusing his actions, because of the fukked up way you understand things, you are incorrect.

No one is making excuses for it. The only way you can conclude that his behaviour is excusable is if you think the hatred he has for black people is acceptable.
 

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Itvsounded like it was an accident BUT I also think this kid uses that word so often that it's probably easy as hell for him to have this type of brain fart.


Exactly,I think he was looking for the word "neighbors". But no way your brain is grabbing for that word unless you use it,or at least see it commonly. So if you aint using it,you hanging around with racist to the point you would have to be racist too:martin:


Also when you move into cacs neighborhoods. Some of them will do things to make you uncomfortable so that you move out. So I wont fully put it past him that this was intentional. But it seemed like he knew he fukked up at the end. And was trying to think of how he could possibly explain it away and smooth it over:mjlol:


He chose wisely if he walked away,because Im sure that brotha had to be upset. Gotta salute him for having control over his emotions. Not sure if Im there yet if he said that in person. Internet words dont bother me. But not reacting to someone disrespecting you face to face takes another level of composure.
 

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thank you.

the wild thing is I didn’t even “excuse” myself in the personal example I gave…clearly pointed out that it was rooted in ignorance and not something I was proud of
Pure foolishness on his part.

What you're saying isn't even a new concept. Whenever someone slips up, people will use it as an indication of what's on their mind which is not always a positive indictment.

Think he was desperate to give someone the :mjpls: . Now he's too proud to shut the fukk up.
 
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Pure foolishness on his part.

What you're saying isn't even a new concept. Whenever someone slips up, people will use it as an indication of what's on their mind which is not always a positive indictment.

Think he was desperate to give someone the :mjpls: . Now he's too proud to shut the fukk up.

Yea, it’s called a Freudian Slip.

Brehs really jumping down other brehs necks for simply explaining the concept. That whole interaction is indicative of why discourse on here can be so terrible. Brehs come from a baseline of hostility and it frames the whole nature of the discussion. I don’t get why they think anything fruitful will come from a discussion where their whole intent is to just be hostile.
 

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You're entitled to your opinion. However if you're making the claim that others are excusing his actions, because of the fukked up way you understand things, you are incorrect.

No one is making excuses for it. The only way you can conclude that his behaviour is excusable is if you think the hatred he has for black people is acceptable.
You resorted to cursing because I have a different opinion on his intentions. I never cursed at you, and I was not even focused on you until you jumped in like an angry girlfriend protecting her man.

Anyhow, people "All Lives Matter" the indefensible every day. It happens even on this site, with low-key attempts to downplay something or give an example of them doing something when no one even questioned the fact that it was an involuntary action. Now your anger about my opinion says something about you too. It is pretty much like you see committing the same sort of actions, and are upset someone can take what you have done as not a positive. Well, that is the internet, and everyone is entitled to their opinion on a post. So if you have a problem with that, well just ignore me and you won't have the fear of the possibility of me calling you out if I think you have stepped across the line into low-key excuse-making for a racist.
 

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Yea, it’s called a Freudian Slip.

Brehs really jumping down other brehs necks for simply explaining the concept. That whole interaction is indicative of why discourse on here can be so terrible. Brehs come from a baseline of hostility and it frames the whole nature of the discussion. I don’t get why they think anything fruitful will come from a discussion where their whole intent is to just be hostile.
Everyone here knows what a Freudian Slip is. The problem I have is when you give an example of you doing it too, in a manner like "we all do it." When it is an overt racist action being discussed in the thread. I do not see it as the time to show how you have done it too in that circumstance and come off as low key excuse making.
 
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Everyone here knows what a Freudian Slip is. The problem I have is when you give an example of you doing it too, in a manner like "we all do it." Not when it is an overt racist action being discussed in the thread. I do not see it as the time to show how you have done it too in that circumstance and come off as low key excuse making.
Breh, it’s been explained to you multiple times that it wasn’t excuse making. It’s fine that you took it that way at first, but now that it’s been clarified, why are you still on it?

There’s several people in here questioning if the salesman said it on purpose, so no, I don’t think it’s fair to say everyone here knows what a Freudian Slip is. That’s likely why breh felt compelled to share his anecdote. Completely appropriate to share at this time to explain why a door to door salesman would say that even tho it completely ruined his chance at a sale.
 

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Breh, it’s been explained to you multiple times that it wasn’t excuse making. It’s fine that you took it that way at first, but now that it’s been clarified, why are you still on it?

There’s several people in here questioning if the salesman said it on purpose, so no, I don’t think it’s fair to say everyone here knows what a Freudian Slip is. That’s likely why breh felt compelled to share his anecdote. Completely appropriate to share at this time to explain why a door to door salesman would say that even tho it completely ruined his chance at a sale.

Yes, some are questioning if he said it on purpose or not, and that was not my point because I know it was a Freudian slip. I also know that the reason for this is probably because he uses that word to describe us in his normal conversations outside of our presence.

Now us having a difference of opinion on @surf intentions is just that, a difference in opinion. I am not obligated to change my opinion on it because others agree with him. Sometimes, a disagreement remains a disagreement no matter how much is said on an issue that is subjective and not objective.
 

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it happened to me with some mexican dudes…this is ignorant and I wouldn’t express this publicly but I feel a way whenever I encounter certain mexican men…I guess you could say like hood mexican dudes…I just get instantly triggered…there’s no rationale for it…anyway one day I was driving and a car full of mexican dudes pulled up on me at a light…so one of them compliments my car and we get into a decent little conversation…when the light turns green, I’m not joking when I said I had every intention of giving them the peace sign then driving off but instead (again I’m not joking) I accidentally gave them the finger…we were literally all surprised…we’re still at the green light temporarily…the main guy on the passenger side is looking at me like “wtf”…I just awkwardly apologized and drove off…but my dislike for them was so strong that despite a completely positive exchange, I couldn’t contain my negative response/reaction…it’s almost like tourette’s smh


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