Everything is surface level, because most people are too busy living their lives, keep it simple so they can either support your movement or not. Case in point, ADOS great acronym simple and to the point.
And no one has to use Yvettes sexuality against her, they just need to appear to link the 2 movements together because any rational person can see that if the leader of ADOS is LGBT then ADOS is at best not opposed to the LGBT crew. Which is not a bad thing either for a movement looking to grow as you say
Or ADOS knowing its supporters can decide to make distinctions between ADOS and LGBT by splainin away as the Tone fella was doing on his twitters and as you know, politics 101, if you splainin you losin

So ADOS can either distinguish itself from LGBT crew ask one of its leaders to resign or denounce her sexuality? (its gonna be a whole lotta splainin friend) and join the carnival barker in the setting up of fringe movements. Or they can embrace growth acknowledge the LGBT crew go mainstream and eventually get co-opted by the Democrat Party.
The #ADOS conundrum