Any advice on staying positive?

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Toning down on the anxiety issue should be the first step. I would recommend doing research on anxiety and figuring out how to decrease yours since that's going to hold you back in life. Toning down the anxiety and feeling like a stronger and more confident person should boost your attitude a lot.

After decreasing your anxiety you can focus more on your dreams and making progress. Positive results and progress leads to a more positive attitude.

 

[Rozay Oro]

if you dont feel like u have accomplished anything yet, try to pick up a trade or just take some time to figure yourself out before you go off to college.

@ShyJ
Please don't go to college yet. Work on you and discover your passion. Listen to me I'm in CC and gonna have to retake classes cause I let depression get the best of me. Let's be able to socialize first, retail will help breh.

 

[Trap-A-LoT]

i recommend the book "Mind Power" by John Kehoe.I used to read it when I was feeling depressed for one or other reason.I was looking at things completely different way after I was done with it.

 

[K.Dot]

Adderall and congenitve behavior therapy

 

[99 Hunter]

@ShyJ
Please don't go to college yet. Work on you and discover your passion. Listen to me I'm in CC and gonna have to retake classes cause I let depression get the best of me. Let's be able to socialize first, retail will help breh.

Like I said, I'm being forced to go to college, my sister thinks me getting a job at the campus should help me but idk.

 

[Saiyajin]

Like I said, I'm being forced to go to college, my sister thinks me getting a job at the campus should help me but idk.

whats she forcing you to take

 

[Rozay Oro]

Like I said, I'm being forced to go to college, my sister thinks me getting a job at the campus should help me but idk.

I will talk to her ass on Skype if you want. She on that buuuullllshyt.

 

[99 Hunter]

well there's your answer although i seriously doubt you have the discipline to do NoFap longer than a week

so do the weight lifting atleast

also try and eat Halal or Kosher meat because normal meat is fukkin full of Estrogen which decreases testosterone. they inject animals with Estrogen to make them produce more meat and make the meat more fatty/tastier to compensate for the loss of flavor when they freeze and ship it

Thanks man I didn't know all that.

And I'm gonna try to keep this nofap thing going, I miss being horny.

 

[Worthless Loser]

This year guys has been pretty rough, my social anxiety has gotten worse, I haven't made any real friends at all my four years at high school. I feel lonely and sad seeing other peers smile and laugh together while I just stand alone feeling anxious wishing I could feel comfortable like them. I know I have to take action but I just can't

I don't go to lunch, instead just sit in the classroom.

I was called a future serial killer today by some classmates even though I wouldn't harm a fly.
Will things get better?

I'm just tired

Since you apparently want to make friends, you should focus on finding one person that shares the same interests as you. A lot of people think you gotta be friends with multiple people to be social when you can just be cool with one person who shares your interests and issues. Once you get comfortable with the one friend you can try to branch out. Baby steps.

You should practice in the mirror. Crack a few jokes. Make yourself comfortable. Think of ideal social situations.

Also, do you have cousins? I considered them my friends in high school. Nothing wrong with that.

 

[K.Dot]

Mental problems are literally physical problems with your brain. You shouldn't be against medicine btw. I hate the way people still think the mind and body is a separate thing.

 

[Saiyajin]

@ShyJ
Please don't go to college yet. Work on you and discover your passion. Listen to me I'm in CC and gonna have to retake classes cause I let depression get the best of me. Let's be able to socialize first, retail will help breh.

nah Social anxiety for studying in college is as effective as taking steroids for sports

if he channels his social anxiety and loneliness purely into studying he will be so thankful when he looks back after 5-10 years

I had to become a fukkin monk/hermit and cut off contact with everyone i knew for my final years and Im so glad I did, shyt was fukkin hard as hell to do tho because im social af and everybody loves me

so @ShyJ you have an amazing opportunity to literally earn six figures and live lavish if you take a STEM degree and just study all day in your dorm (but only if you're not too scared to go to lectures )

but if you spend all day in your dorm on shyt besides studying, like playing fukkin video games and shyt. You literally lost in the worst way possible

 

[99 Hunter]

whats she forcing you to take

The crazy thing is im going un majored.

I will talk to her ass on Skype if you want. She on that buuuullllshyt.

She definitely don't do no interactions with strangers online.

 

[Saiyajin]

The crazy thing is im going un majored.



She definitely don't do no interactions with strangers online.

wtf why? pick a STEM major atleast and change to another STEM major if you find something you like better

 

[99 Hunter]

nah Social anxiety for studying in college is as effective as taking steroids for sports

if he channels his social anxiety and loneliness purely into studying he will be so thankful when he looks back after 5-10 years

I had to become a fukkin monk/hermit and cut off contact with everyone i knew for my final years and Im so glad I did, shyt was fukkin hard as hell to do tho because im social af and everybody loves me

so @ShyJ you have an amazing opportunity to literally earn six figures and live lavish if you take a STEM degree and just study all day in your dorm (but only if you're not too scared to go to lectures )

but if you spend all day in your dorm on shyt besides studying, like playing fukkin video games and shyt. You literally lost in the worst way possible

I'll see man

 

[Saiyajin]

I'll see man

cant say I didnt try