thats not really information people just volunteer lol
DC is very much a "where do you work/what do you do/what church do you go to/fraternity/sority" type city
I can't speak for other people or how folks do this stuff in America but for my people, you have to be chosen/family passes it down to you. From this thread it seems like cats just go to mixers to get down lol. I personally wouldn't mess with this stuff in America unless its something that was already passed down in your family generational.
I'd even be weary when seeking guidance from someone practicing traditional spiritual systems simply because American capitalism b*stardizes this stuff so much it isn't worth risking your soul.
Thats my 2 cents though, so best of luck.



