Any Ladies On Here That Are #GMB?

[Anerdyblackguy]

As for mine...I did everything a wife is supposed to I fucced succed n cooked n fed him. My current husband wanted something I couldnt give him....a baby...but he knew I could no longer have kids when we met so he has no excuse I even suggested we work as a team to get him a baby but he decided to be deceitful with the process. N whats fucced up is he wants to stay married....he still takes care of me n my daughter financially somewhat. But I dont love him romantically nemore.

That's some foul Shyt on his part

 

[Vice Queen]

Sorry for your life experiences man. Shoutout to them UCLA Bruins tho.

Eh, that's what happens when the grandfather you know best is a hate filled jealous man and your father is a pathological liar and possible narcissist. It's what happens when you're aware of being sexualized at a really young age. When your t*ts are in at the age of 10 and everyone wants to cop a feel. You spend 10 years stuck in lust with someone.....

I don't mind having a partner but we can't live together. You can lie in your own filth by yourself. If you want to eat fast food all the time instead of cooking, more power to you. You can take all the time you need to tidy up. You can have all the broads you want come through. And I will have mine set up similarly.

 

[#1 pick]

Humor me. How?


I've seen too many of the women in my life used and abused, literally.
I've internalized, from years of observation, that men are just going to do what they want to do and anyone else be damned, I'll never be important, I'll never really matter to you because I'm just a beast of burden and a dikk recepticle. I love myself too much too diminish my light for someone else, especially when I've seen the results of women diminishing their lights for the unappreciative men in their lives.

All men tho... sad tho

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Eh, that's what happens when the grandfather you know best is a hate filled jealous man and your father is a pathological liar and possible narcissist. It's what happens when you're aware of being sexualized at a really young age. When your t*ts are in at the age of 10 and everyone wants to cop a feel. You spend 10 years stuck in lust with someone.....

I don't mind having a partner but we can't live together. You can lie in your own filth by yourself. If you want to eat fast food all the time instead of cooking, more power to you. You can take all the time you need to tidy up. You can have all the broads you want come through. And I will have mine set up similarly.

Damn, to be honest I don't know what to say. I never knew my grandfather (RIP), my father and me are cool; and I didn't know about being sexualized until 25. So I'm not going to sugar coat or pretend I know where you are coming from.

But I do believe in the phrase " People come in our lives for a reason, a season, and a lifetime". I just hope one day it happens to you. In a positive way of course.

God bless you man.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

That's some foul Shyt on his part

Yuppppppp I can forgive the wantin a baby part but all the lies n drama that popped off later....mayne naw.......the bytch popped up at my house the day I was moving out......it took errything in me to not whoop her ass....n then to discover even more lies n deception naw breh we done im good on that but u gone pay 4 the hurt u caused. ...so thats what I b'n doin hittin his pockets. And will continue to do so until I decide to quit. The hard part is not fuccin him no mo. Im not ready to interact with new ppl....im emotionally fragile and I dont like ppl. But imma equal opportunity hater I hate errybody.

 

[AtomicUse]

How was he NOT trying to hurt my feelings when he was deceitful after my suggestion? ?? We could have gotten it done as a team. Then there is all the lies he told after the fact. Im honest to a fault maybe a lil too honest at times and I expect the same from my husband. The problem is he is a liar n deceitful n those 2 things destroy marriages. Doesnt matter what he does financially if he cant b honest. What if he no longer has money to take care of us then what . And thats the problem money don't mean shyt. Money cant hold, comfort or be intimate.

More proof that females are really insatiable. So Dude got with you and stayed with you and took care of you even after you told him you couldn't give him children, stayed with you and held you down, and even after he's gone he's still taking care of you and your daughter and he's a POS? Dude kept his desires off to the side and away from you the whole time cause he knew what the deal was, and still held down his obligations at home. Sounds like a man that understands his woman and wanted to keep his family unti together to me, but I'll let you cook.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

More proof that females are really insatiable. So Dude got with you and stayed with you and took care of you even after you told him you couldn't give him children, stayed with you and held you down, and even after he's gone he's still taking care of you and your daughter and he's a POS? Dude kept his desires off to the side and away from you the whole time cause he knew what the deal was, and still held down his obligations at home. Sounds like a man that understands his woman and wanted to keep his family unti together to me, but I'll let you cook.

You act like because he pays the bills, he can cheat whenever he wants. The way you downplayed the cheating and drama was insane.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

More proof that females are really insatiable. So Dude got with you and stayed with you and took care of you even after you told him you couldn't give him children, stayed with you and held you down, and even after he's gone he's still taking care of you and your daughter and he's a POS? Dude kept his desires off to the side and away from you the whole time cause he knew what the deal was, and still held down his obligations at home. Sounds like a man that understands his woman and wanted to keep his family unti together to me, but I'll let you cook.

If that were true why lie n b deceitful? ?? Especially if im open to it thats what makes him a pos. He lied when he could have told the truth n all would be forgiven n we could still have been together but the fact he destroyed the trust ova bs nah....call me crazy ion give a fucc all I wanted was honesty n he fucced that up. Its a whole nother thread on why honesty is so important to me but im trying to stay on topic.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

You act like because he pays the bills, he can cheat whenever he wants. The way you downplayed the cheating and drama was insane.

Ya hear me???

 

[Ironman]

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[Ironman]

black don't crack, breh.

 

[Ironman]

Humor me. How?


I've seen too many of the women in my life used and abused, literally.
I've internalized, from years of observation, that men are just going to do what they want to do and anyone else be damned, I'll never be important, I'll never really matter to you because I'm just a beast of burden and a dikk recepticle. I love myself too much too diminish my light for someone else, especially when I've seen the results of women diminishing their lights for the unappreciative men in their lives.

Asswholes

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

Condolences. I've been guilty of this shyt in my 'give a shyt' days. Relationships used to make me paranoid as hell. Kind of still do and I really hate being played.

One of the biggest things for me is being made to feel stupid in anything but it's like it's 10x worse when you trust someone like that.

But pk23 as a free agent is a dangerous thing. These coli streets bout to be hot fighting for your hand.

I wont ever do that shyt again. I felt like Lucious Fox when Batman revealed that he tapped all the lines in Gotham...

 

[Ironman]

i went through the same with the first husband

made me appreciate husband number 2 even more.

*btw xh still cant get right no matter who hes with

.....................................he's got to catch the Negan treatment for this
Let him know I'm coming

 

[Shade]

Oh we're past that point lol by fall we'll be done on paper and I'm moving back to either NC or Colorado.

Past couple days he's been on some pyscho shyt--some "I don't want anyone else to have you" shyt....but thats a different story all together lol

Come to NC