Any of y'all ever ask out women when they're working (cashiers, sales people, etc)
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StickStickly
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It’s ahrd to meet people so you may as well ask since dating is a numbers game. Just be cool if she says no. She’s on duty and needs to get back to work.
I usually like your advice on women, but the whole writing it down on a piece of paper talking about she dropped it is corny, breh
Exactly, breh actually said write your name and number on a damn note like some high school shyt
I've flipped it and asked women who came into my store out, this has worked out twice for me recently, went out of dates with both of them. I have asked women out at they job, sometimes got a number, sometimes a rejection. Get the right moment and some good quick FUNNY convo, can help break the ice. I will be the first to admit I do not have the best mouthpiece, but I have been told I can be hilarious at times, that definitely helps.
Yeah I bagged this Dominican Italian shorty in the heights she was working Starbucks. Bad ass girl and my dumb ass was looking for something witty cause dudes would ALWAYS holla at her.
Went up,said hello and chat up a bit as a regular, ordered my coffee, she then asked “would you like anything else” my crony ass said “yes but what I want isn’t on the menu” looked at her with the only smirk and then smiled. Came back the next day, asked for her number so “I can take her on a picnic” and she was like hell yeah! Later on she complimented and said she appreciated me not seeing just her beautiful face and wanting to know about her beyond the physical (thanks to the book the art of seduction for that! Lol
Bagged and we had a lil thing going. But ultimately she had an ex boyfriend she had feelings for and they was in the transition and dude was harassing her and her mom also liked the nikka so I said it’s all good. Hit a couple times after they got back togtether though lmao and he found out. And from then I swore to never mess with a taken chick because man dude went through a lot with me.
Went up,said hello and chat up a bit as a regular, ordered my coffee, she then asked “would you like anything else” my crony ass said “yes but what I want isn’t on the menu” looked at her with the only smirk and then smiled. Came back the next day, asked for her number so “I can take her on a picnic” and she was like hell yeah! Later on she complimented and said she appreciated me not seeing just her beautiful face and wanting to know about her beyond the physical (thanks to the book the art of seduction for that! Lol
Bagged and we had a lil thing going. But ultimately she had an ex boyfriend she had feelings for and they was in the transition and dude was harassing her and her mom also liked the nikka so I said it’s all good. Hit a couple times after they got back togtether though lmao and he found out. And from then I swore to never mess with a taken chick because man dude went through a lot with me.
Wise to be aware of how many men, unattractive in one way or another, treat women in job like cashier, as if they are there for the men's personal amusement, careful to not fall into that category. Many men walk in and are flirting as a power thing, telling dumb jokes, and just being obnoxious. Don't be one of those. Find something in common, and just be polite and direct, I would avoid lines and "moves".
PhonZhi
Veteran
It worked
I do agree with the other part tho, to just shoot your shot when you feel comfortable enough to do it. But shoot that shot
PhonZhi
Veteran
It worked
Sometimes it can be hard to tell if a chick is just being extra friendly because of her job, or if she's flirting. Most of the time, I just keep it moving.
However, I did get a phone number from a Rite-Aid cashier years ago. This Rite-Aid was a block away from my apartment, so I was in there all the time. This cute brownskin jawn would always chat me up when I went in there. I didn't think nothing of it at first, but every time she saw me in there, she made it a point to flirt with me. She always made sure I came to her register, even if she had to open a new one up for me. This went on for months (keep in mind, I was younger and dumber back then). One day, I finally grew some nuts. I slid my phone across the counter, and discreetly told her to add her number (the store was busy, so I didn't wanna make a scene). She quickly obliged, and put her number in my phone.
We talked for like a week or two, but I ended up meeting my ex around the same time, and getting serious with her. In addition, I also moved apartments around that time. Therefore, I never got to smash the Rite-Aid chick. She was badd, too. I kick myself for not keeping her around for a little longer.
However, I did get a phone number from a Rite-Aid cashier years ago. This Rite-Aid was a block away from my apartment, so I was in there all the time. This cute brownskin jawn would always chat me up when I went in there. I didn't think nothing of it at first, but every time she saw me in there, she made it a point to flirt with me. She always made sure I came to her register, even if she had to open a new one up for me. This went on for months (keep in mind, I was younger and dumber back then). One day, I finally grew some nuts. I slid my phone across the counter, and discreetly told her to add her number (the store was busy, so I didn't wanna make a scene). She quickly obliged, and put her number in my phone.
We talked for like a week or two, but I ended up meeting my ex around the same time, and getting serious with her. In addition, I also moved apartments around that time. Therefore, I never got to smash the Rite-Aid chick. She was badd, too. I kick myself for not keeping her around for a little longer.
This is one that always makes me feel subconscious. I can't read women in this situation. It's one thing if the business is empty or she's only dealing with you, but how do you make time when she's got to work? I can't figure it out.