Any of y'all ever put a bish you met online in her place?

[Raava]

I actually invited her out to the movies (I figured it would be dark ) But she wanted to go to a restaurant, and being that it was Saturday, I just had to break it down to her why I didn't want to go.



I can't see she lied with her pics. It's not like she's obese, she needs to drop about 15-20 lbs. But I just can't do chubby in public I guess I'm f*cked up.



I could give a f*ck what people think. If my wife was fat so be it, f*ck you nikkaz But I'm in my prime, towards the end actually, I gotta be spending it with 8.5s and up brehette.

If you don't want to been seen with her don't mess with her at all. You are horrible. But straight up is always best in the long run.

 

[Solano707]

I didn't make it to be funny breh. The chick is actually Mexican, and really cool. I don't need to come online to brag about HOH, I do that sh*t in real life. I came online because I tried to be cool and be as tactful as possible. And why is it ignorant for me to be honest? Karma already got me, above and beyond that she was cool, and honestly it's not easy finding cool chicks anymore

Yeah I understand... Just gotta be careful, its easy to break a female down especially if she knows that she has issues. Females are always looking for validation and a means to assure their self worthiness. When you say things like that - they only become more reclusive than ever before. You never know, you may have a diamond in the ruff, it just takes some time polishing. You may find that she brings the best out in you too as well.

 

[blackzeus]

The honesty isn't even the issue here. It's why you even feel that way in the first place...why does it matter so much to you what other people think in public, if you're actually feeling the girl?

People don't have to commend you just cause you're brave enough to be honest...sometimes the things you feel/think are just messed up...whether you admit to them or not. Like, if someone's racist or homophobic and they're "honest" about it, does that mean they should be respected just cause they're upfront? Nah. The issues isn't the honesty, it's the fact that they harbor these thoughts in the first place.

I told her brehette that I could give a f*ck about what other people think. It was more about me. Because she wanted to be my girl. My main girl, and my only girl. I ain't Will Smith, but if you want to be my chick, there's certain levels to that sh*t, and one of them is appearance. If you're beautiful to me, then I don't care what other people think, I present you to my peeps with pride. But if even I know you need some work, it's tough for me to be proud of you. And yes, it's messed up, I just don't know how I get into these situations sometimes

 

[Mr Rager]

Pass that chick my way, I'll take that problem off your hands breh

 

[Desirous]

I told her brehette that I could give a f*ck about what other people think. It was more about me. Because she wanted to be my girl. My main girl, and my only girl. I ain't Will Smith, but if you want to be my chick, there's certain levels to that sh*t, and one of them is appearance. If you're beautiful to me, then I don't care what other people think, I present you to my peeps with pride. But if even I know you need some work, it's tough for me to be proud of you. And yes, it's messed up, I just don't know how I get into these situations sometimes

Well, yah...a person has to be beautiful to you...but it doesn't make sense to be with her, period...because she can lose the 20 lbs now, but might gain it in the future...so if you're not attracted to her with the extra weight off the bat, then don't bother...she deserves to be with someone who will take her for what she is, with or without the extra weight (cause it's not like she's 100 lbs overweight).

 

[blackzeus]

Yeah I understand... Just gotta be careful, its easy to break a female down especially if she knows that she has issues. Females are always looking for validation and a means to assure their self worthiness. When you say things like that - they only become more reclusive than ever before. You never know, you may have a diamond in the ruff, it just takes some time polishing. You may find that she brings the best out in you too as well.

Yeah, she just deleted me from her IM breh, the sh*t's official now I told her she looks good, and she really does. But I didn't want to be the dude to validate it's ok being overweight, especially if your partner feels a certain way about it. And mos def she's a diamond, not even in the rough, she needed some minor polishing.

 

[blackzeus]

Thanks to everybody who replied, it seems like the official consensus is that I'm a superficial a$$hole. to y'all for keeping it 100. Gonna try to change

 

[blackzeus]

Well, yah...a person has to be beautiful to you...but it doesn't make sense to be with her, period...because she can lose the 20 lbs now, but might gain it in the future...so if you're not attracted to her with the extra weight off the bat, then don't bother...she deserves to be with someone who will take her for what she is, with or without the extra weight (cause it's not like she's 100 lbs overweight).

It's not about the weight. Anybody can get fat. But if we're going to be in a serious relationship, I feel I have the right to let you know that you're becoming unattractive, and that it's better to say that than to cheat on you. But with my luck, what will happen is that she drops 20-25 lbs, and she's with the next player, and sends me photos of her looking like a dimepiece Thanks again for your input and keeping it 100.

 

[aXiom]

How did she lie with her pics though? He decided she was attractive she couldn't make that decision for him. Op makes it seem like it was only a slight weight difference and that was too much for him.

Are you saying that she must take pics every time her weight changes?

I'm saying she should use her most recent pics or note somewhere in the convo that she's put on a few extra pounds. If I'm going solely by what she has posted of herself online then I'm gonna take it as a representation of how she currently looks, not how she looked 2 years and 20-30 pounds ago.

 

[KinksandCoils]

I'm saying she should use her most recent pics or note somewhere in the convo that she's put on a few extra pounds. If I'm going solely by what she has posted of herself online then I'm gonna take it as a representation of how she currently looks, not how she looked 2 years and 20-30 pounds ago.

No one should have to say they gained a few pounds when they post a pic. It's no ones job to entertain people who only care about looks. Gtfoh

 

[aXiom]

No one should have to say they gained a few pounds when they post a pic. It's no ones job to entertain people who only care about looks. Gtfoh

You're right. I also reserve the right to not fukk with you if i don't like how you look.

 

[KinksandCoils]

You're right. I also reserve the right to not fukk with you if i don't like how you look.

Yup. Of course you have that right.

 

[IronFist]

I try to keep a clean mouth around women IRL and online, however there are times, when a chick will take my kindness for weakness and it turns into a verbal altercation, which usually leaves her feeling either embarrassed or completely dumbfounded. once i turn that mirror on her and tell her about herself. Have had plenty of arguments on Blackplanet and a recent one on POF.