Desirous
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You ARE superficial. If you'd fukk her on the low, but can't be seen in public with her - what does that tell you? That you care about what other people think/say about you. That's a superficial trait.
Any of y'all ever put a bish you met online in her place?
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KinksandCoils
African American Queen
How did she lie with her pics though? He decided she was attractive she couldn't make that decision for him. Op makes it seem like it was only a slight weight difference and that was too much for him.
Are you saying that she must take pics every time her weight changes?
To be 8.5 and up, she gotta lose about 20 lbs +/- 5 lbs. At first I thought about that, but then she was talking about me meeting her parents, and wanting to go to public spots where people would see us together. I can't be in a serious relationship with someone who lets their body go away. On top of that she's latina. If she's chubby before the relationship, it's only going to get worse once she's getting d*cked down everyday and thinking she's got me.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
Op you're an a$$hole for what you said to her.
Honesty is the best policy, but you have to be tactful the way you say it to people. I for one, would not have said that we couldn't been seen in public unless she dropped the weight - that's fukked up. Trust me, what comes around, goes around and you will get yours.
Bro, you just showed her your ignorance to her - and she probably has such low self esteem that she is willing to look past it (hopefully she doesn't).
What get's me, is she is educated, finance is straight - and you tripping of her being a little over weight. You tripping hella hard.
Karma is bytch.
Edit: And if you made that post to be funny or HOH type of shyt - then you got some growing up to do. Matter of fact, you did her a favor and UEONO.
Bro, you just showed her your ignorance to her - and she probably has such low self esteem that she is willing to look past it (hopefully she doesn't).
What get's me, is she is educated, finance is straight - and you tripping of her being a little over weight. You tripping hella hard.
Karma is bytch.
Edit: And if you made that post to be funny or HOH type of shyt - then you got some growing up to do. Matter of fact, you did her a favor and UEONO.
I was willing to take her out to the movies breh, ain't that public enough? And I was willing to be in the gym/park with her on her quest to lose weight as well
Damn man, you got feelin' like a real dirtbag right now
I could have just d*tched her when I saw her the first time, that doesn't count for anything? Not to mention I could have just lied to her, kept her as a f*ckbuddy, and then gone out with other chicks. Isn't it better to be honest? I don't know what other way to say it, I tried to be as gentle as possible.
Desirous
Action expresses priorities
I was willing to take her out to the movies breh, ain't that public enough? And I was willing to be in the gym/park with her on her quest to lose weight as well
According to you, she just needs to lose 20 lbs. Took me 4 months to drop 20 lbs...it's not really a quest or that difficult lol
Chesirecatdaddy
All Star
well depending on how you go at it that shouldnt take too long to lose... if she gets a gym with a trainer it should be simple actually.. if she goes about it on her own it could take a long while. It's all about what she does with her horrible eating habits... its not hard to become overweight in America breh.... and also it might be too early for the meeting of the parents thing..she might have other issues besides being fat.
Desirous
Action expresses priorities
Isn't it better for me to just be honest? You ARE superficial. Sorry. You'll be okay!Damn man, you got feelin' like a real dirtbag right now
Detroit Wave
Veteran
be called shallow for being honest brehs 
completely ignore the fact that being hamplanet status is disgusting brehs
completely ignore the false advertising in her photos brehs
completely ignore the fact that being hamplanet status is disgusting brehs
completely ignore the false advertising in her photos brehs
Yes @Teedot you're right, to be honest it wasn't that bad, it wasn't like she was 100 lbs overweight or some sh*t like that. And it's not even that I couldn't hang with her. But as she seemed to want something serious, if I was going to be 100% into the relationship, meaning like be all hot about her, let everybody know that's my bish, be all kissing and making out in public, I needed her to lose 20 lbs. I don't see how that's wrong to be honest. Would it have been better for me to meet the parents of a chick I only planned to make my f*ckbuddy?
yeah but the damage was already done at that point. you shoulda just treated her like an side piece you met online good for a quick smash and dash, idk why you were tryin to wine and dine this heffer.I was willing to take her out to the movies breh, ain't that public enough? And I was willing to be in the gym/park with her on her quest to lose weight as well
Ms.CuriousCat
All Star
It was working in my favor at first to be honest, we're chatting right now, she admitted that I'm keeping it real, then she went into this whole spiel about how she went bulimic in the past trying to keep her weight down, then she broke down () and said it's better we meet when she drops more weight
Someone buy this chick some self-respect
I agree, and on top of it I was willing to be part of the process. But it looks like that option is gone now
Again, i was down to help her out, I know what it's like to be overweight as well. These foreign bishes always be wanting you to meet the family breh, that's how they get down
If it wasn't for all the family talk I probably would have just sidepieced her, but she's really a good person, and she seemed real and serious about being about me, so I had to be honest with her Looks like it cost me