Any of yall got narcissistic family members?
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By walking away.
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"Energy flows where the attention goes and some folks are evidently null and void within so will drain you with a grin, like a psychopathic abyss. Once you become aware of the concept and truly grok its significance said people can be seen almost reveling in the process and reeling once you disconnect as they are no longer getting what sustains them.
Its a Bright and Dark Souls thing. We’ll get into that in a moment. For now its intriguing how they seem to have a “type” that is rife with image building and can often be quite brown nosing to those with any kind of power and quick to attempt the besmirchification of another in order to paint themselves in a better light, often at your expense. In that sense they are similar to playground bullies except they evidently never grew out of this stage and built their entire life around it as a central tenet of their existence. Worse still is the gaslighting and manipulation to ensure you remain present in the role of supply to fulfill their needs and how often you’ll seem crazy if you point out how they roll as they’ve built another face to share with the world whereas you see what is truly within as you’ve witnessed, first hand, their savageness."
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What is the single, most beneficial change you have implemented in your life thus far? Mine has to be removing emotional vampires from my life. No explanation, no reasoning, no nothing. Done. Walk …
willhelp.me
Its a Bright and Dark Souls thing. We’ll get into that in a moment. For now its intriguing how they seem to have a “type” that is rife with image building and can often be quite brown nosing to those with any kind of power and quick to attempt the besmirchification of another in order to paint themselves in a better light, often at your expense. In that sense they are similar to playground bullies except they evidently never grew out of this stage and built their entire life around it as a central tenet of their existence. Worse still is the gaslighting and manipulation to ensure you remain present in the role of supply to fulfill their needs and how often you’ll seem crazy if you point out how they roll as they’ve built another face to share with the world whereas you see what is truly within as you’ve witnessed, first hand, their savageness."
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Its a really huge topic and one many don't wish to recognize or realize but the truth is if one or both of your parents are narcissistic then it was over before it began unless you make that change and disconnect from their presence.
Its so mean and wicked really but then this world is created by the type and thus they thrive which is exactly what MJ meant when he said They Don't Really Care About Us as its all a facade, an image to assist in draining your energetics. That is who is in charge of this realm and why its no measure of mental health to be well adjusted to socially sanctioned sickness.
Those who are Bright Souls and shine inside are often taken for a ride until they wise up and read between the lines as its such a crazy thing thats so hard to speak due to continual gaslighting on as the Dark Souls are pros at image building/seeming perfect in anothers eyes. Social media on the whole is just a digital presentation of this pathology.
I'll say it again, if you've got these kind of people in your life - Walk away. Don't say a thing, don't reason or explain because they'll never change as they are incapable of introspection on a fundamental level as there is nothing but a vacuum within that justifies its existence by feeding.
Its so mean and wicked really but then this world is created by the type and thus they thrive which is exactly what MJ meant when he said They Don't Really Care About Us as its all a facade, an image to assist in draining your energetics. That is who is in charge of this realm and why its no measure of mental health to be well adjusted to socially sanctioned sickness.
Those who are Bright Souls and shine inside are often taken for a ride until they wise up and read between the lines as its such a crazy thing thats so hard to speak due to continual gaslighting on as the Dark Souls are pros at image building/seeming perfect in anothers eyes. Social media on the whole is just a digital presentation of this pathology.
I'll say it again, if you've got these kind of people in your life - Walk away. Don't say a thing, don't reason or explain because they'll never change as they are incapable of introspection on a fundamental level as there is nothing but a vacuum within that justifies its existence by feeding.
Whats a example of something a narcissistic family member would do?
Ya Sinning Mane
Superstar
We ignore that nikka til he think straight
Looks at em like they overweight and stank occasionally
Looks at em like they overweight and stank occasionally
Buddy
FAIA (Foundational African In America) 😤
I'd imagine something like this
shyt like this for example
@Ian_Carter Mom sounds like one if she wasn't legitimately concerned with her son spiritual life and just wanted to control him using her religion
Also here's a list I got off a google search.
1. They see their child as a source of validation.
2. They are emotionally reactive, but shame their child’s emotions.
3. They always put their own needs first.
4. They have poor boundaries.
5. They play favorites.
6. They shift blame onto their children.
7. They expect the child to be the caregiver.
you give me hope.. not many of you left..
plz pass your knowledge down . their are intelligent people
people who share their intelligence .
you got the magic eye! (denzel cig gif)
weather so breezy
Superstar
yes, me 
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Man, its something I'll be speaking on in a while but its such a huge topic thats much easier to deal face to face. Online is a whole nother thing as you can't feel the energetics of wherever someone is at the moment and plus its just text on a screen.
In a nutshell though you have to realize their nature is like that of a vacuum and pay more attention to your feelings plus learning to say no as you set and enforce boundaries is like Kryptonite to this type. Its about getting centered and knowing when it feels wrong it is and acting on as the guilt/fear you feel is a but a street sign on the road to healing so keep on keeping on.
Traits they'll display are being two faced, living through you or undermining what you do, manipulation and guilt tripping, comparing you to other siblings/relations, perpetual dissatisfaction, image building/super vain, codependent, no empathy, jealously running in their veins. That kind of thing.
Its all energetic feeding as they only have a surface with nothing beyond it and thus need to get under your skin and get to leeching.
In a nutshell though you have to realize their nature is like that of a vacuum and pay more attention to your feelings plus learning to say no as you set and enforce boundaries is like Kryptonite to this type. Its about getting centered and knowing when it feels wrong it is and acting on as the guilt/fear you feel is a but a street sign on the road to healing so keep on keeping on.
Traits they'll display are being two faced, living through you or undermining what you do, manipulation and guilt tripping, comparing you to other siblings/relations, perpetual dissatisfaction, image building/super vain, codependent, no empathy, jealously running in their veins. That kind of thing.
Its all energetic feeding as they only have a surface with nothing beyond it and thus need to get under your skin and get to leeching.
Ofcourse.
How I deal with it? I don’t…..
How I deal with it? I don’t…..
OJ Simpsom
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My ex wife
Literally have to talk to her like a toddler so she doesnt get offended by anything and flip out. bytch is bipolar too. Cant believe any word she says or be reasonable because shes unstable af. THE WORST KIND OF HUMAN TO DEAL WITH. RUN AWAY WHILE YOU STILL CAN.
Literally have to talk to her like a toddler so she doesnt get offended by anything and flip out. bytch is bipolar too. Cant believe any word she says or be reasonable because shes unstable af. THE WORST KIND OF HUMAN TO DEAL WITH. RUN AWAY WHILE YOU STILL CAN.Why you say that @surf? What's up with your parents? And not to get sidetracked where is that dude Luken?
Sounds like you are very experienced with this topic!
