Any other guy here has to have sex with a chick before they can be in a "official" relationship?

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That would be infinitely better than being rejected for having some values :francis:

The problem is guys are getting shafted left and right.

Back in the day if you married a Woman you could fukk other women on the side no problem if she wasn't giving up the buns on the regular.

Now hoes want half for putting in no work. :francis: They don't want to cook or clean, and then no p*ssy either? :dwillhuh: Like why do you even exist or live? :why:

I am doing a deep study on Women starting this month. So far what I've found in my analysis is:

Women operate off a scarcity and insecure mentality. They don't have enough testosterone and their dopamine is hella low. So basically they are creatures that sit around writhe their hands and hope and pray for something to bless them in some way shape or form. They don't even know what it is that they need - They just know they need it.:heh: (I'd like to be the first nikka to find the chemical compounds that provides "it", because I'm 100% sure this is a biological issue) They are caught in a catch-22 of wanting something but not having the ability to become resolute and get it. So they have a catch and grab mentality. If a nikka give them attention they hold on to it for dear life. If a nikka fukk up and spill his seed in her - She hold on to that for dear life. She hold onto everything because she is unable to create or innovate. She is just a receptor and can hold things but she can't germinate anything. She is like soil that if nothing comes, nothing happens.

They need stimulation but are only receptive to select kinds of stimulation. The reason Women like stereotypical things like Wine, Cheese Chocolate and Yogurt (almost universally throughout cultures/ethnicities) is because these are all things that do the following:

  • Provide a soothing effect chemically in the brain (Theophylline and Theobromine from Chocolate)
  • Remove natural inhibitions and relieve some inflammation (Wine)
  • Balance mood and digestion (Cheese which has calcium which Women need more than Men, and enzymes/metabolites which can assist serotonin uptake in the gut)
  • Yogurt - Balances digestion, reduces bloating but also a secondary effect in that it balances estrogen hormones indirectly

It is impossible for a Man to comprehend this. We have 10x the testosterone of Women and are brains are wired to hunt and kill. Take life to preserve our own. We have a competitive and combative mentality. We seek, we hunt and we discover. We innovate solutions to problems. We create conflict to invoke change where stagnancy exists. There are positives and negatives to the genders. I am not saying being Male is 100% positive. But what I am saying is it is impossible for a Man to understand why you don't want to have sex if you are sexually attracted. It runs contrary to our biological makeup. When we want to fukk a bytch and she is receptive, we do it. The only reason we don't do it regardless if she is receptive or not - Is because we know that other Males will have a problem with this. Men like combat and conflict, but not unnecessary conflict that won't yield progress and a beneficial result where we come out on top. The human male has evolved somewhat to have balanced situations where there are multiple Alpha males. Because think about it, against an outside threat (another tribe) we need more than one top dawg. We need multiple dawgz to bring dat heat to the opposition:demonic:.

More Men are drug addicts because Men seek highs and adrenaline producing activities or elements due to our higher dopamine and testosterone which encourages pleasure seeking behaviors and risk taking vs. Women who seek comfort and balance.

There is no way we can ever come to the same table truly. We're essentially two different species. But there are exceptions to the rule. :ld:
 
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The problem is guys are getting shafted left and right.

Back in the day if you married a Woman you could fukk other women on the side no problem if she wasn't giving up the buns on the regular.

Now hoes want half for putting in no work. :francis: They don't want to cook or clean, and then no p*ssy either? :dwillhuh: Like why do you even exist or live? :why:

I am doing a deep study on Women starting this month. So far what I've found in my analysis is:

Women operate off a scarcity and insecure mentality. They don't have enough testosterone and their dopamine is hella low. So basically they are creatures that sit around writhe their hands and hope and pray for something to bless them in some way shape or form. They don't even know what it is that they need - They just know they need it.:heh: (I'd like to be the first nikka to find the chemical compounds that provides "it", because I'm 100% sure this is a biological issue) They are caught in a catch-22 of wanting something but not having the ability to become resolute and get it. So they have a catch and grab mentality. If a nikka give them attention they hold on to it for dear life. If a nikka fukk up and spill his seed in her - She hold on to that for dear life. She hold onto everything because she is unable to create or innovate. She is just a receptor and can hold things but she can't germinate anything. She is like soil that if nothing comes, nothing happens.

They need stimulation but are only receptive to select kinds of stimulation. The reason Women like stereotypical things like Wine, Cheese Chocolate and Yogurt (almost universally throughout cultures/ethnicities) is because these are all things that do the following:

  • Provide a soothing effect chemically in the brain (Theophylline and Theobromine from Chocolate)
  • Remove natural inhibitions and relieve some inflammation (Wine)
  • Balance mood and digestion (Cheese which has calcium which Women need more than Men, and enzymes/metabolites which can assist serotonin uptake in the gut)
  • Yogurt - Balances digestion, reduces bloating but also a secondary effect in that it balances estrogen hormones indirectly

It is impossible for a Man to comprehend this. We have 10x the testosterone of Women and are brains are wired to hunt and kill. Take life to preserve our own. We have a competitive and combative mentality. We seek, we hunt and we discover. We innovate solutions to problems. We create conflict to invoke change where stagnancy exists. There are positives and negatives to the genders. I am not saying being Male is 100% positive. But what I am saying is it is impossible for a Man to understand why you don't want to have sex if you are sexually attracted. It runs contrary to our biological makeup. When we want to fukk a bytch and she is receptive, we do it. The only reason we don't do it regardless if she is receptive or not - Is because we know that other Males will have a problem with this. Men like combat and conflict, but not unnecessary conflict that won't yield progress and a beneficial result where we come out on top. The human male has evolved somewhat to have balanced situations where there are multiple Alpha males. Because think about it, against an outside threat (another tribe) we need more than one top dawg. We need multiple dawgz to bring dat heat to the opposition:demonic:.

More Men are drug addicts because Men seek highs and adrenaline producing activities or elements due to our higher dopamine and testosterone which encourages pleasure seeking behaviors and risk taking vs. Women who seek comfort and balance.

There is no way we can ever come to the same table truly. We're essentially two different species. But there are exceptions to the rule. :ld:


Im doing my personal study it's called "5 bricks a day" it starts in February(just holla at me about it). Women just aren't special upfront it takes a women to grown a man. All women care about is their perspective and they stay trying to sell men what we not trying to buy. Funny thing is WE have to know or need to know about women all they have to do is existence. And men have to sit back and listen to how women marginalize us as men. Men get sex before a women gets love...it's just the way it is.
 

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The problem is guys are getting shafted left and right.

Back in the day if you married a Woman you could fukk other women on the side no problem if she wasn't giving up the buns on the regular.

Now hoes want half for putting in no work. :francis: They don't want to cook or clean, and then no p*ssy either? :dwillhuh: Like why do you even exist or live? :why:

I am doing a deep study on Women starting this month. So far what I've found in my analysis is:

Women operate off a scarcity and insecure mentality. They don't have enough testosterone and their dopamine is hella low. So basically they are creatures that sit around writhe their hands and hope and pray for something to bless them in some way shape or form. They don't even know what it is that they need - They just know they need it.:heh: (I'd like to be the first nikka to find the chemical compounds that provides "it", because I'm 100% sure this is a biological issue) They are caught in a catch-22 of wanting something but not having the ability to become resolute and get it. So they have a catch and grab mentality. If a nikka give them attention they hold on to it for dear life. If a nikka fukk up and spill his seed in her - She hold on to that for dear life. She hold onto everything because she is unable to create or innovate. She is just a receptor and can hold things but she can't germinate anything. She is like soil that if nothing comes, nothing happens.

They need stimulation but are only receptive to select kinds of stimulation. The reason Women like stereotypical things like Wine, Cheese Chocolate and Yogurt (almost universally throughout cultures/ethnicities) is because these are all things that do the following:

  • Provide a soothing effect chemically in the brain (Theophylline and Theobromine from Chocolate)
  • Remove natural inhibitions and relieve some inflammation (Wine)
  • Balance mood and digestion (Cheese which has calcium which Women need more than Men, and enzymes/metabolites which can assist serotonin uptake in the gut)
  • Yogurt - Balances digestion, reduces bloating but also a secondary effect in that it balances estrogen hormones indirectly

It is impossible for a Man to comprehend this. We have 10x the testosterone of Women and are brains are wired to hunt and kill. Take life to preserve our own. We have a competitive and combative mentality. We seek, we hunt and we discover. We innovate solutions to problems. We create conflict to invoke change where stagnancy exists. There are positives and negatives to the genders. I am not saying being Male is 100% positive. But what I am saying is it is impossible for a Man to understand why you don't want to have sex if you are sexually attracted. It runs contrary to our biological makeup. When we want to fukk a bytch and she is receptive, we do it. The only reason we don't do it regardless if she is receptive or not - Is because we know that other Males will have a problem with this. Men like combat and conflict, but not unnecessary conflict that won't yield progress and a beneficial result where we come out on top. The human male has evolved somewhat to have balanced situations where there are multiple Alpha males. Because think about it, against an outside threat (another tribe) we need more than one top dawg. We need multiple dawgz to bring dat heat to the opposition:demonic:.

More Men are drug addicts because Men seek highs and adrenaline producing activities or elements due to our higher dopamine and testosterone which encourages pleasure seeking behaviors and risk taking vs. Women who seek comfort and balance.

There is no way we can ever come to the same table truly. We're essentially two different species. But there are exceptions to the rule. :ld:
Keep me posted on this
 
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Im doing my personal study it's called "5 bricks a day" it starts in February(just holla at me about it). Women just aren't special upfront it takes a women to grown a man. All women care about is their perspective and they stay trying to sell men what we not trying to buy. Funny thing is WE have to know or need to know about women all they have to do is existence. And men have to sit back and listen to how women marginalize us as men. Men get sex before a women gets love...it's just the way it is.

Agreed. In observing my Woman's behavior I have first hand experience everyday. Her job is not valuing her enough and I keep giving her advice and the tools to move on. She keeps procrastinating. I am giving her concrete feedback and an easy path. I know her field, she is a Graphic Designer now with Web design skills. So I said you can easily transition to UX/UI design field and instantly get a 10-15k bump in pay even for entry level. There are plenty of roles available. I even found an environment she would feel comfortable working in at a non-profit. She will sit on that role for 4 weeks and probably do nothing with it.

Now this is a Japanese Woman born in Japan, very intelligent. She makes sure that I am well fed, sexually satisfied etc. I am treated like a King. But when it comes to herself she like most Women have 1/10th the ambition of a Man. Yet at the same time I would not have gotten with her if she had no ambition at all. But compared to me I don't tolerate BS. I take action immediately when I am not happy at a job. It depends on the industry, in my industry you can move around a lot with no consequences. But for 10 years she been at the same place so longevity is not an issue. She has a lot of options right now. I know for most Women it's tough to make decisions. So I am helping her narrow down her choices. But a lot of Women want Men to make choices for them. I can't make this choice for you because it's your career. You either want to be happy at work or you don't.

So the lesson here is that Women will be Women - But there are degrees to this shyt. I would never deal with a Woman who had zero ambition but at the same time you can't expect them to be able to make cutthroat decisions like Men. They are not biologically built for it. Hilary Clinton is a cyborg and was so heartbroken that she was rendered emotionless after Monica blew Billy Boy so she doesn't count.
 

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[QUOTE="PaperEnterprise, post: 16297537, member: 3this? ]I"m 34 so No. But I have to know few basic things about the woman prior to making it official.[/QUOTE]
No troll breh, but what does age have to do with this? Hell at 34 I got less time to deal with a chick that doesn't satisfy me sexually along with other requirements. Hell, getting older made my list LONGER through experience.
 

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[QUOTE="PaperEnterprise, post: 16297537, member: 3this? ]I"m 34 so No. But I have to know few basic things about the woman prior to making it official.
No troll breh, but what does age have to do with this? Hell at 34 I got less time to deal with a chick that doesn't satisfy me sexually along with other requirements. Hell, getting older made my list LONGER through experience.[/QUOTE]

Just means at 34, i need more from a woman than sex if i plan to make things official with...

Ive fukked a lot in my life time. I need to know more about her than sex. Ive had great sex with girls i wouldnt think twice about wifing. Ive also had bad sex with amazing girls...

Lol. It is what it is.
 

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What happened to the mandatory 6 month probationary period coupled with the 4 week STD/HIV testing results?

:Noah:
you can have it!

kidding, I think people become flexible depending on who it is.

I think the real issue is most guys don't believe a woman is attracted to and committed to them unless sex is involved. Otherwise you are platonic
kinda like ciara and Russ
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No troll breh, but what does age have to do with this? Hell at 34 I got less time to deal with a chick that doesn't satisfy me sexually along with other requirements. Hell, getting older made my list LONGER through experience.

Just means at 34, i need more from a woman than sex if i plan to make things official with...

Ive fukked a lot in my life time. I need to know more about her than sex. Ive had great sex with girls i wouldnt think twice about wifing. Ive also had bad sex with amazing girls...

Lol. It is what it is.[/QUOTE]
This is pretty much my point, that I need a lot from a woman, but sex being right is one of them. So yeah, sex is one of the prerequisites
 

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Are you in a relationship now?

Nope. I'm in a town with no choices. The men have no teeth and they walk around with no shoes. I rather wait and work on my career and jet out of here and have better choices of men. So no I'm not sleeping with anyone! Damn near everyone I've went to school with has kids and look 50. No! My legs will remain closed until I am ready and I have someone.
 

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Nope. I'm in a town with no choices. The men have no teeth and they walk around with no shoes. I rather wait and work on my career and jet out of here and have better choices of men. So no I'm not sleeping with anyone! Damn near everyone I've went to school with has kids and look 50. No! My legs will remain closed until I am ready and I have someone.
Are you in East St louis?
 

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Find it awful hard for me to be in an actual relationship with a girl I ain't had it away with solely because if the Sex isn't right for either of us it's going to cause problems that I'm going to be somewhat passive aggressive about given my nature for not wanting to argue and get into fights with females. Ain't even about me just smashing without commitment; what if she unsatisfied about the size of my dikk or don't like my routine if we were to jump into a relationship prior to having sex? :yeshrug:
Some would say 'build on it', but we both know I can't build mah dikk up:francis: more than it is and she might like me so much she'd cheat on me in secret and that's one of the main reasons I haven't been in an exclusive relationship since 17.:upsetfavre: Sex plays a HUGE roll in relationships so let's not even front like as if any of us should be in here jumping into this thing like them fools who buy empty storage lots hoping for a come up.:ufdup:
 
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Sex is great, but expecting sex to make the relationship is stupidity. Everyone I have sex with arent relationship material they are fukk material. So I don't require someone who has qualities of a girlfriend to bend down before I claim her. I need to be able to have a conversation with her had have similar likes and dislikes, etc for me to think of her as wifey.
 
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Relationships happen organically so this is a hard question to answer. There is not hard set rule that if you're vibing with a guy and have sex with him you're his girl but making him wait won't make him committ either. Trust me I've been on both ends. No matter what you do, if a person wants to be in a relationship with you sex or no, they'll do it. And if they just want friends with benefits there's literally nothing you can do to change that expect KIM.
 
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