Any tips on how to deal with a lazy woman?

[Rawtid]

He's all up in here like "Hey guys, it's not that serious. I feel like I just need to talk to her and things will get better."


Well why didn't you try that first before coming here?

This always happens, niccaz always think they gonna beat the odds. Like when we told Ammo to stop raw dogging that underage blackplanet chick.

Your memory!!

 

[PrnzHakeem]

Your memory!!

I forget nothing. NOTHING!

 

[Pimp]

Seems like you didn't marry her you married the pu$$y..you're too young to hold on breh. Don't get married til you're 30+. Honestly in your 20s you're still a kid.

 

[Rawtid]

I forget nothing. NOTHING!

I see. That's why I don't beef with you. I don't want any trouble!!

 

[The ADD]

I see. That's why I don't beef with you. I don't want any trouble!!

C/S

 

[PrnzHakeem]

I see. That's why I don't beef with you. I don't want any trouble!!

I'm not malicious. Just don't lie to me or about me, and I leave people alone.

I'm too old to be e-beefing.

 

[winb83]

Some actual tactics would be nice, not just the "throw her out" regimen y'all kick around. I'm married so I need other options, she don't clean, she gets a job for like 2 months and then quits cause she always looking for the right "one". She has talents but is too lazy to even use that....She wont cook like at all...well she tried and it was terrible so im cool with that, but at least learn to try. My pops said I should cut the cable off?

Maybe some lazy females on here can share their though process as to why they don't want to do anything at all for themselves? Or some fellas who have cured the lazy female?

Thank You.

you made a mistake. admit that and correct it with the best course of action possible for you. that's to get a divorce and move on with your life.

when you make a mistake like this diving deeper into it isn't gonna fix it. the fact of the matter is this, you can't change someone else. you can't fix somebody that's broken. your two choices are accept her for who she is or leave her.

if you want an answer to the question the way you put it your answer is simple. accept her for the lazy woman she is and compensate for that by taking up her end of the work. the real answer is to leave her but you don't wanna hear that.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

You answered your own question. Everything is sweet when you're dating, but women (and men) get comfortable when the rings go on so they'll hit you with stuff they didn't used to during the dating days. No disrespect, but you can't really understand the perspective of the OP if he's been married and living with his chick for 5 years and you're just dating your chick. I do agree with your advice though.

It took me some bumps in the road but I learned you gotta pimp even harder after you get married. Once she thinks she "figured you out" she'll try you and tack on more bullshyt. And one of two things will happen. Either she'll take your balls, or you'll stay fly and dictate the course of the relationship, all the while remaining sexy in her eyes and keeping things fresh and her in her place.

Naw breh, dude picked up a lazy ass broad. He said he didn't even ask whether she could cook before they got married. I know this is the coli and a lot of y'all nikkas think women are out to get you for your call center check, but the signs are there if you look for them. When I'm around my GF's parent everything she does is what her moms does. When I'm around her family for BBQ's and what not everything she does is what her aunts and cousins do the same thing. Some women were just raised properly.

 

[young3000]

Ridiculous

Put your foot down and tell her to get a job and stick with it or get out. You only what 25-26?? Still in your prime, no way I'm putting up with that. And she doesn't cook or clean

If you allow this to continue then 3-4 years from now you're going to be mad at yourself as well as her and by then it will be too late.

 

[skeetsinternal]

Some actual tactics would be nice, not just the "throw her out" regimen y'all kick around. I'm married so I need other options, she don't clean, she gets a job for like 2 months and then quits cause she always looking for the right "one". She has talents but is too lazy to even use that....She wont cook like at all...well she tried and it was terrible so im cool with that, but at least learn to try. My pops said I should cut the cable off?

Maybe some lazy females on here can share their though process as to why they don't want to do anything at all for themselves? Or some fellas who have cured the lazy female?

Thank You.

First off you dont ever ever "DEAL" with a lazy bytch. This bytch laziness is trait she learned and can unlearn through training. You TELL a bytch what your expectations are and what result you want. Your pops correct by suggesting you take from the bytch and he also is eluding to the fact that you a giver and you absorb this bytch's bullshyt. Man up nikka.

 

[patscorpio]

What do i look like cooking for her like some peasent breh..Lol niqqa i cant cook, thats another thing we eat out way too much, we do go the grocery store but we be buyin simple azz easy cook sh1t like frozen burritos and sh1t,

I havent had a proper home cooked meal since we left her parents'

..unacceptable breh

 

[Strapped]

Man fukking lead by example,if you a neat freak clean the house , cook & tell that fat heffa that's how you wants it & if she does not comply bouncebut if you're as lazy ,dirty & grimey and she is, enjoy your hoarding life & stfu homes

 

[swimmingpools]

What do i look like cooking for her like some peasent breh..Lol niqqa i cant cook, thats another thing we eat out way too much, we do go the grocery store but we be buyin simple azz easy cook sh1t like frozen burritos and sh1t,

I havent had a proper home cooked meal since we left her parents'

Cook with her. If you can read, you can cook. It doesnt have to be an elaborate meal, but yall should look on recipe sites or something and cook together. Just follow the directions and you will be good.

As far as all that other sh-t, you say shes sensitive and gets defensive well try a different approach. She needs to grow up.

 

[Ready,Willing,Humble]

Ill go at this swift and hard...

Ill let yall know the results, maybe even secret record the whole scenario

 

[winb83]

Ridiculous

Put your foot down and tell her to get a job and stick with it or get out. You only what 25-26?? Still in your prime, no way I'm putting up with that. And she doesn't cook or clean

If you allow this to continue then 3-4 years from now you're going to be mad at yourself as well as her and by then it will be too late.

once you marry a woman she's entitled to do whatever the hell she wants and if you try to tell her anything she can divorce you and take half of everything. in fact as a husband you better do what she tells you or she can end the marriage any time she wants and take half of everything you own. do you think it really works out all that well in reverse?

in other words as a husband you're never really in a position to tell your wife to do shyt. you have no leverage and she has it all.