Any tips on looking more jovial , demeanor and expression wise ?

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... It seems like almost everyone I encounter tells me I look angry or prepared to fight . I really don't be doing this on purpose brehs ... guess its my default expression , but I think that's the primary reason why it was difficult for me to attain employment because of my expression .... because regardless of how articulate and coherent I was during interviews most of the interviewers we're looking at me on some :lupe: shyt ....

I know niccas is going to be like "Just smile" but I can't fake it like most people for some reason , shyt just comes out wild crooked when I do :mjcry:
 

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job interviews are a joke period. they are just a popularity contest. nobody actually cares about who can get the work done the best.

theres nhing to smile about around these fake squares that you encounter in job interviews pretending to be a boss.
 

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Ehh, I dont think its sumn dat can rly be faked like dat breh. :patrice:

I mean r u generally a sad or angry person or is it jus rly a case of restin mean mug?
 

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Ehh, I dont think its sumn dat can rly be faked like dat breh. :patrice:

I mean r u generally a sad or angry person or is it jus rly a case of restin mean mug?
Nah breh I really just be lounging ... it's pretty much a restin mean mug expression
 

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Green you are a very intelligent young man and you have a beautiful smile... I think you just have a BRF.

That's something that you can't help. I too suffer from a chronic case of BRF. Do you know how many people tell me to smile or stop thinking so hard? LOL.

You have to do what I done. Make direct eye contact and smile without smirking.

Do you make direct eye contact with the people you talk to? Just trying being more lighthearted. You seem like you might be really serious alot.
 

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Green you are a very intelligent young man and you have a beautiful smile... I think you just have a BRF.

That's something that you can't help. I too suffer from a chronic case of BRF. Do you know how many people tell me to smile or stop thinking so hard? LOL.

You have to do what I done. Make direct eye contact and smile without smirking.

Do you make direct eye contact with the people you talk to? Just trying being more lighthearted. You seem like you might be really serious alot.

Heard of a RBF...whats a BRF?
 

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Man I have the same problem everyone thinks I'm too serious, angry, or sad. I'm happy just introverted. At home I'm more outgoing but I clam up and get serious around people.

Something that helped me is listening to a lot of podcast. I learned how to make and continue conversations and try to time your jokes. You wanna be in a good mood but not come off as goofy at the same time. Caffeine helps boost your energy a little too. Alcohol is the ultimate lubricant but not always available.
 

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Didn't know you had this problem in real life, you just look like you're tired all the time but I guess that's because people only get on tc late at night :yeshrug:
 

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Nah breh I really just be lounging ... it's pretty much a restin mean mug expression
Yeh u dont come off as a depressed or angry guy. Jus a chill dude tbh.

So yeh guess its a restin mean mug ting. Dont kno if its much u can do about it but lowkey its advantages to it tho. It keep mufukkas on they toes :birdman: and the bytches be intruiged and wanna get into ur world :lupe:.

Im pretty much the opposite. Im one of those happy go lucky type dudes. Its all gravy but sometimes I be findin myself havin to check mofos cuz im so nice n sometimes they think its one way, then I have to show em its another way. :snoop:

Lowkey I wished I looked mo intimidating but im bout to get bald and swole sooo :lupe:.
 

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You don't have a game face? I guess you never had to lie to cops and enemies.
 
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