was it for the better or did you go 
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Anybody been through a break up that changed them? (Edit - recirculating exes ugh)
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was it for the better or did you go ?
Yes, I think every break up should change you for the better. You should take the time to reflect and heal so you can understand what you need to do better when the next relationship comes along.
Bless't
Living the dream
All my break ups have taught me a lot about myself. Whether to change certain behaviors in myself or to watch for particular traits in women that may prove destructive and counter productive.
Every day is a new experience. I stay aware.
Every day is a new experience. I stay aware.
Been a savage before any relationship ..... continued being one after
..... continued being one afterParadise
Too tired to think of something witty to say...
Everyone that has gone through a break up has had some type of change. Some people go on to do better than what they had and some people just keep attracting the same people.
I had a conversation with someone the other day about "emotional baggage". The damage done after a break up definitely can add to the weight of emotional baggage. Like I told my homie some people carry around their emotional baggage which leads to more heartbreak. Some people tuck their emotional baggage in the closet and only bring it out when need be. That's not the healthiest thing to do... Because it generally manifest itself in other ways such as jealousy.
But to answer your question, yes I have had a break up that changed me for the better. It allow me to find out what I want and will tolerate in a relationship.
I had a conversation with someone the other day about "emotional baggage". The damage done after a break up definitely can add to the weight of emotional baggage. Like I told my homie some people carry around their emotional baggage which leads to more heartbreak. Some people tuck their emotional baggage in the closet and only bring it out when need be. That's not the healthiest thing to do... Because it generally manifest itself in other ways such as jealousy.
But to answer your question, yes I have had a break up that changed me for the better. It allow me to find out what I want and will tolerate in a relationship.
I'm going through it a lil bit guys 
ex hit me up today
ex hit me up today
Elle Driver
Veteran
I smartened up.
Chrishaune
Veteran
Paradise
Too tired to think of something witty to say...
Stay strong and remain firm!I'm going through it a lil bit guys
Elle Driver
Veteran
They always hit you up when you forget about them. I swear men got a spidey sense about that.I'm going through it a lil bit guys
Its like clockwork. They're never done.
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